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marylandmissing
01-23-2005, 09:10 AM
The second life of Larry Swartz: Florida friends remember murderer as 'God's gift to life'

He lived on a narrow street with ranchers and carports, where trucks park on the lawns and working-class people scrape by.

There is a lake across the street where on a good day the kids can catch catfish or bass. Neighbors often gather for a cigarette and a beer, talking long into the night about their kids and their problems with work.

It could be anywhere in middle America, but this is outside Orlando, Fla., the home of Disney World. Life here is anything but a fantasy of animal characters and amusement rides.

It was the last of many homes for Larry Swartz, who at age 38 had found the happiness that eluded him most of his short life.

Larry died near his Florida home on Dec. 29, nearly 21 years after murdering his adoptive Cape St. Claire parents. His crime, which later became the subject of a book and made-for-television movie, is one of the most remembered in county history.

Behind Larry were many foster homes filled with rejection, cold prison cells, homeless camps and raunchy apartments. The lost teenager who committed an unfathomable crime had finally turned his life around, only to die before fully appreciating it.

Neighbors, friends, coworkers and two wives never knew Larry Swartz, the murderer. They only knew a generous man with a big heart, who bought bait and tackle for the neighborhood kids, took in stray animals, checked in on elderly neighbors during hurricanes and knew how to talk to people from all walks of life.

Most of his friends knew his criminal history, but it didn't matter to them.

"I knew everything about him," his wife Christy says. "He experienced a whole childhood of hurt, but he was accepted and loved for who he was."

Greg Ogiste, like Larry, drove a delivery truck for 84 Lumber. Choking back tears, he says, "I wish there were more people like Larry. He was God's gift to life."

In the last two years of his life, Larry found what eluded him as a castaway child - a family of his own. The boy rejected repeatedly by adults became a man who rejected nobody.

Larry was born in New Orleans, the illegitimate son of an East Indian pimp and a runaway teen. Abandoned at 20 months, he spent six years in four foster homes, many abusive, whose parents returned him to Social Services because of his frequent temper tantrums.

Finally, at age 6 he was adopted by Kathryn and Robert Swartz, a devoutly Catholic couple who eventually adopted two more children, Michael and Ann.

Friends admired the Swartzes for their love and devotion to their adopted children. But life in the Swartz home was not easy, especially for a popular teenager who was not allowed to date or even watch movies with friends.

A handsome Broadneck High School athlete, Larry learned to control his temper tantrums out of fear of being rejected yet again.

His fear was well-founded. One day he came home to find a caseworker escorting his 15-year-old brother, Michael, from the Mount Pleasant Drive house.

Inside, his parents said they had given up on Michael and suggested Larry would be next if he didn't work harder on his grades. They vowed to give Larry the discipline they failed to give Michael - and that started the next day.

On a snowy Jan. 16, 1984, Kathryn asked Larry how he did on the two tests he took that day. He thought he did well on one, but not the other.

His mother made a sarcastic comment, and the rage he had learned how to control exploded like a volcano.

He struck his mother in the head with a wood-splitting maul and then stabbed her seven times with a steak knife. He then turned the knife on his father, emerging from a nearby computer room.

Although Michael was initially suspected of the crime, Larry confessed eight days later. He was convicted of second-degree murder and sentenced to 12 years in the Patuxent Institution in Jessup.

Ron Baradel, the lawyer who represented Larry and became his legal guardian, remembers entering the Swartz house after the police left. On the table were Larry's adoption papers.

Did Larry think that, like Michael, he was about to be kicked out of another home?

Throughout the investigation, Larry never said anything bad about his adoptive parents, so the answer eluded Mr. Baradel for 20 years.

But he got his answer shortly after the funeral, when Larry's wife, Christy, said, "Larry told me he was going to be the next one sent to the pound. That's why he snapped."

Ann was adopted by family friends and went on to lead an anonymous life on the Eastern Shore. Through Mr. Baradel, she declined to be interviewed for this story.

Michael was convicted in 1990 of murdering a Crownsville man over a jar of coins and is still serving time in the Maryland Correctional Institution in Hagerstown.

Starting over

In 1993, Larry emerged from prison with a high school diploma, two years of college education and hope.

In what remains a mystery, the 26-year-old was adopted for the second time by a Silver Spring family. He took their last name and looked for anonymity, but the relationship broke up.

He met his first wife in late 1993 or early 1994 while shopping for eyeglasses and the couple moved to Florida, where he fathered a child.

The daughter is unaware of her father's criminal history and to protect her identity, The Capital is not disclosing her name or her mother's. His first wife and sister declined to talk.

The next several years were tumultuous for Larry. He was thrown out of an apartment by squatters who befriended him and lived in his truck until it was impounded by police for parking in an illegal space.

After breaking into the impounded truck to retrieve his wallet and clothes, he was arrested and spent three months behind bars.

Without his truck or a place to stay, he lived with the Orlando homeless. It was here, around the fire and cardboard shelters, where Larry found acceptance.

"Even after we married, Larry would occasionally go back to the homeless camp to talk to his friends," Christy says. "It worried me, but then I understood he felt at home there. No one asked questions, no one cared about his past. He really had a heart for those people."

Eventually, Larry saved enough money to share an apartment with a friend and it was through him that he met Christy, a pretty green-eyed, red-haired woman 13 years his senior.

He moved into her home on the lake and, surrounded by friends, married her about a year and a half ago in a ceremony in their back yard. His sister Ann attended. He was at his happiest.

The couple stayed up late at night talking or playing chess. His daughter, now 8, visited on the weekends and slept in a room just for her. Barbecues were frequent; a backyard fire pit drew many friends. Larry was into the home life - the one he never knew as a child.

"He said if won $20 million in the lottery, he wouldn't leave this house," Christy says.

He was loved by the neighborhood children who would run down the street at the sound of his red truck and beg for a ride.

Eight-year-old Tyler Tetreault, who lives with his parents next door, went fishing with Larry every day. Larry bought him a net, tackle box and pole for his birthday.

The only day he didn't go fishing was the day he lost his eyeglasses. That was also the day he died.

Reciting his bedside prayers that night, Tyler's mother heard him say, "I know Larry is going to heaven because he's a really good person."

His friends shared his interest in fishing and poker, but it was Larry's compassion that attracted them to him.

One of those friends was neighbor Matt Ellis.

"I was having a problem with my little girl and Larry said you have got to fight for what you love, live for that next day. He should have been mad at the world, but he wasn't. I never heard him say a bad thing about nobody."

Between tears, Chad Selers says, "I never had anyone open the door to me. If he had two beers, he'd give you one. If he had two cigarettes, he'd give you one. If he had two quarters, he'd give you one. He'd give you the shirt off his back."

'Set things straight'

Larry had broken off contact with his sister Ann and Mr. Baradel while he was homeless. But shortly before last Christmas - just days before he died - Larry decided to dig into his Maryland roots and call the man who had ushered him through his tortured years.

Recalls the attorney, "We made small talk. He said he was happy and he wanted me to meet his wife and daughter. I said maybe I could come down for a visit in the spring. That was it."

It was the last time he would talk to Larry.

He ponders what motivated Larry to call at this point in his life. "Did he have a premonition or was he trying to set things straight?" asks the former guardian.

Christy recalls their last long conversation the night before he died: "He felt God was protecting him because He still had something for him to do. When he was homeless, he said he told God, 'I'm yours.' He didn't want to give it up."

Dec. 29 began like any other day. Christy went off to work as a registered nurse at a local hospital, and Larry later woke up not feeling well. He couldn't find his glasses and called Christy at work. She had mistakenly grabbed his instead of hers.

When he described his chest pains and sweat, she insisted that he go to the emergency room. But he declined. He told Scotty and Tyler, the neighbor kids, he would pick up his glasses and bait, then take them fishing.

When he arrived at his wife's hospital, he was rubbing his chest. Alarmed, Christy insisted again he stay for an EKG, but he left with his glasses saying he was feeling better.

He was discovered minutes later by police, slumped over the steering wheel of his parked 1986 Jeep Comanche, his foot hard against the accelerator and the engine smoking.

The autopsy showed Larry had died of a massive heart attack.

The bait was on the seat beside him. The kids were waiting in front of his house, listening for the sound of a truck that would never come.

Larry's Lake

The sun shined brightly on Jan. 4 for Larry's funeral at the Gospel Tabernacle Church. Christy insisted on driving his battered red truck to the service.

All of his friends and coworkers were there. So was his first wife, his daughter, Ann and Mr. Baradel. His friends, most leading troubled lives, sat sobbing for hours beside a casket surrounded by photos of Larry.

Says Mr. Baradel, "I saw guys who didn't seem to have a tear duct in their heads crying, bent over his coffin."

During the funeral his friends took to the microphone to speak of Larry. One pointed to Mr. Baradel as the man "who saved Larry." Others just cried.

A couple of weeks later, Christy continues to struggle with her loss. On the couch in her living room, she strokes Highway, a dog found alongside a Florida interstate. The couple's two dogs and three cats were abandoned in life but found in Larry someone who offered love no matter what their pedigree or past.

She is surrounded by candle-lit photos of Larry and posters the neighbors made for the funeral. His ashes are in an urn in her bedroom.

She copes with her loss by talking to Larry through the diary she is writing. She thinks about writing a book about him. Neighbors are putting together a sign to rename the lake, "Larry's Lake."

Friends check in to make sure she is all right; her phone constantly rings. The red truck sits outside, his Timberland boots - a birthday gift from his wife - tossed on the passenger seat.

The peeling blue canoe - Larry's classroom where he spent hours with his daughter and the neighborhood kids - sits idle across the street. No one is fishing or waiting for the red truck to rumble down the road.



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nanandjim
01-26-2005, 10:12 AM
Sounds like Larry did find some happiness before he died. For that, he was truly blessed.

teonspaleprincess
02-28-2005, 08:37 AM
I just finished reading a book about Larry and I was moved to tears when I read that he had died. I always felt that more went on in his house than he let on and I am so happy to hear that he was able to find peace and happiness and love before his untimely death.

cusilton
05-05-2005, 07:29 PM
Nanandjim and Teonspaleprincess, thank you for your kind words.
Nanandjim : Larry did find happyness...and more than that, he
gave happyness.
Teonspaleprincess : Larry's life speaks as a Greek tragidy,
or a parable. There is another book in the works. I work
full time as an RN, so the work of the book is slower than
I would like.
Larry's wife,
Christy

mysteriew
05-05-2005, 08:53 PM
cusilton
I am going to be very honest with you. When I first started reading this post, I wasn't real impressed. I often look at reformed murderers with some suspicion. The same thing when I hear grieving family members talk about how good the person was. I fully expected to hear that he met some violent end.
But after reading more about the challenges he faced as a child, his history, his punishment, and then the grace with which he ended up living, I was crying. I believe he had truly- I hate to say reformed, but maybe grown into the loving person he was.
Please write the book, and let us know when it is published? And thank you for reminding me that there is truly hope that people can change.

csds703
05-05-2005, 09:05 PM
Nanandjim and Teonspaleprincess, thank you for your kind words.
Nanandjim : Larry did find happyness...and more than that, he
gave happyness.
Teonspaleprincess : Larry's life speaks as a Greek tragidy,
or a parable. There is another book in the works. I work
full time as an RN, so the work of the book is slower than
I would like.
Larry's wife,
Christy
I'm sorry for your loss.

cusilton
05-07-2005, 02:05 AM
It's not that Larry was a bad person who reformed and became a good person.
Good and bad is a spectrum in all of us, I think. If given the the right (or wrong)
circumstances we're all capable of bad actions and good actions. You know the old phrase, "if not for the grace of God, there go I". Not everyone who is homeless, rejected and lonely since birth commit such an unspeakable act, but as this site tells...the statistics arn't good. I believe all of us have limits that can be reached that can render us to cross the line of self control. Being a murderer was never the essence of Larry's being. Getting to know the people from his past (from childood through his imprisonment), I've learned that he always had a good heart. He took the weak, powerless, lost ones under his wing. He watched over them and showed them acceptance. Even animals!
I have a house full of stray rescued animals that Larry brought home. He seemed to want to give what he never recieved.
A story was told to the world in the form of his life.
Thanks for your interest and for seeing the person with a more generous hearted vision.
Christy

KMM
06-22-2006, 03:41 AM
Christy,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I had read the original book years ago and at the time it scared the hell out of me. The reason being is that I'm an adoptive mother, and when reading the book in the early 1990s I realized that my adoptive son had similar behaviors as Larry did when younger. The impulse control probs, tantrums, rages, etc., were all too familiar. Crazy as it seems, I wondered if one day my son might do the same to us. Fast forward, my son is about to turn 17. We have experienced a host of behavior problems with him and up until 2 years ago had no idea why he had all the troubles. At one point we had our son arrested for domestic violence - on us. We had our son in counseling a couple of years ago and after learning about our son's behavior probs, the counselor asked if our son's birthmother drank alcohol while pregnant. The answer was yes. It turns out our son has Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders (FASD) which is to blame for brain damage leading to behavior problems, learning problems, and exposure to alcohol in utero can cause organ defects as well.

The reason I'm telling you this is because from what I've read about Larry's origins (bio parents being pimp and teenager in New Orleans) it's likely substance abuse was involved during the pregnancy. FASD children are more likely to be abused, as parents (who don't understand what they're dealing with) get frustrated because these effected children do not learn from consequences and can be very difficult to deal with. FASD people find it much more difficult to control their anger, and difficult to stop themselves from committing serious crimes . After our son's latest run in with the police, a detective told me that about 80% of the juvenile repeat offenders in the system are Fetal Alcohol Effected. Also, statistics show that there is a much higher incidence of Fetal Alcohol exposure in Adopted children as opposed to non-adopted children.

Also with FASD there is no cure, and many struggle through life, but sometimes they will just "grow up" late (if they haven't gotten too deep into the justice system). This possibly could explain how Larry changed his life later on down the line. Because FASD can cause organ damage, I would also have to wonder if that is what could have caused Larry's death at such a young age.

Here is a link to info about FASD: http://www.come-over.to/FAS/brochures/WhatIsFASD.pdf

Was Larry ever able to find out anything more about his bio-parents? Do you know if his bio mom drank alcohol while pregnant? Do you know if his biological mother is still alive?
I hope you don't mind my insights and questions,
Karen

KMM
07-05-2006, 12:43 AM
I'm also certain that Michael is a fetal alcohol victim that I would bet my life on it, he had/has all the behavioral manifestations. Back when Larry & Michael were adopted, people weren't aware of the problems of fetal alcohol babies. Being a parent who is raising one of these children, I can say the Swartz's did not stand a chance, the parents or the children.

As an adoptive parent, you go into adoption loving your children and feeling that you are going to give them the best life possible, but also determined to do whatever is necessary to help these kids grow up to be properly educated and self sufficient. With a fetal alcohol child, those ideals quickly blow up in your face. They have behavioral problems that seem minor through grade school, many are diagnosed with ADD or ADHD. They're disorganized, have difficulty with dates and time, and sometimes get suspended from the bus for fighting or being disruptive. Then, their grades begin to slide in Jr. high and keep going downhill in High School. They typically just stop doing their schoolwork and fail most if not all their classes, at that point, they are only interested in socializing in HS, not academics. Many drop out of high school. If they are not "allowed" to drop out, they will run away from home.

They are defiant to an extreme where if they are told they cannot go somewhere or do something they want, they will sneak out. I know "normal" kids may sometimes do this, but the difference is, a fetal alcohol teen can get caught after sneaking out and not be the least bit remorseful for what they did, but angry at the parent for giving them consequences. If grounded for their behavior, they will sneak out while they are grounded. They live like they have nothing to lose and are angry at anyone who tries to stop them. Most "normal" teens have some direction and a means to get to a future they have chosen for themselves, while fetal alcohol teens don't plan, can't seem to get organized, and appear to have no motivation, they just let things happen. They are usually compulsive liars, they will fantasize, and relay it to you as though it was the God's honest truth, frighteningly they tend to believe their own lies.

They are prone to fits of rage and can be a physical threat to those closest to them. Fetal Alcohol victims find it difficult if not impossible to control their impulses, for that reason, they can get into trouble for improper sexual conduct, theft, compulsive lying (for no reason), and as you can imagine, other problems that would crop up without any impulse control. Many Fetal Alcohol Effected babies end up in the prison system in their adult lives.

A detective from our town told me that 80-90% of juvenile repeat offenders in our town (small town) are Fetal Alcohol Victims.
Basically it boils down to Alcohol damaging a child's brain and thought processing ability before they are born, and it has recently been found that there is NO SAFE AMOUNT OF ALCOHOL CONSUMPTION WHILE PREGNANT.

While Bob & Kay did seem somewhat extreme because of their religious beliefs, how they transformed over time when raising the kids was typical of parents dealing with behaviorally difficult child/children. You try what should normally work to set the child on the right track, the child defies you and does what he wants anyways, and you get tougher and tougher on them to try to correct their behavior, but it is futile and explosive. The parents feel it is gradually becoming a crisis, as the child's behavior and grades continue to slide downward. It's no easier on child victims of Fetal Alcohol abuse, as they cannot help their behavior..

Garnan
07-06-2006, 11:47 AM
So sad, this story made me cry, and I am usually pretty tough.

Bobbisangel
07-06-2006, 06:06 PM
It's not that Larry was a bad person who reformed and became a good person.
Good and bad is a spectrum in all of us, I think. If given the the right (or wrong)
circumstances we're all capable of bad actions and good actions. You know the old phrase, "if not for the grace of God, there go I". Not everyone who is homeless, rejected and lonely since birth commit such an unspeakable act, but as this site tells...the statistics arn't good. I believe all of us have limits that can be reached that can render us to cross the line of self control. Being a murderer was never the essence of Larry's being. Getting to know the people from his past (from childood through his imprisonment), I've learned that he always had a good heart. He took the weak, powerless, lost ones under his wing. He watched over them and showed them acceptance. Even animals!
I have a house full of stray rescued animals that Larry brought home. He seemed to want to give what he never recieved.
A story was told to the world in the form of his life.
Thanks for your interest and for seeing the person with a more generous hearted vision.
Christy



Until I worked with troubled teens I had no idea that adoptive parents could desolve an adoption. I saw it happen twice and I saw the affect it had on the teens. I realize that some children are a handful but I believe that when you adopt a child that child is yours the same as if you gave birth to it.

For me it is easy to understand the fear that Larry must have felt when his adoptive parents rejected the one son. The fear of rejection must have been horrible. What a sad story but what a beautiful last few years Larry lived.
We will never understand why some things happen. Larry was really just beginning his life. He gave so much and had so much more to give. He sounds like a wonderful person and I'm so glad he had found so much love. Still makes me ask "why." Why do the good die so young and the evil live long lives creating pain and sorrow for so many? It just isn't fair but then so much in life isn't fair.

Could you give me the name of the book written about Larry? I would love to read it. I saw a made for TV movie not long ago that is almost idential to Larry's story but the adoptive parents adopted 3 boys. The story ended with the middle boy being found out about the murder of the parents who had kicked the older boy out and the middle boy feared he would be next because the parents were so strict with him. It's Larrys story to a T.

I'm so glad that you and Larry met and that you gave each other so much happiness. I just wish it had lasted about 50 years longer.

valkyrie024
09-28-2006, 10:12 AM
Hi Christy! I went to high school with Larry (he was a year older than I). I just recently learned of his passing ... I'm so sorry! I remember Larry being the very good looking, well liked, high school soccer star who was part of the popular "in" crowd.

I had one class with Larry ... Larry never knew my name (I was one of those painfully shy girls who sat in the back of class), but he was always so nice whenever he spoke to me (I guess what I mean is: even though he was part of the "in" crowd, he never acted like a snob and I never saw him belittle anyone).

When the incident happened, everyone refused to believe that Larry would have done it ... afterwards there were rumors and stories that circulated around school about how bad things really were in his home. I guess no one can really know how they will react if / when they reach their breaking point. It was a very sad time for alot of us.

While I was in college I dated a fellow that knew Michael and the family that took in Anne and I had the good fortune of meeting them all.

Although Larry is no longer with us, I am very happy to hear that he was able to find happiness with you and had the good fortune of touching alot of lives.

God bless.

southcitymom
09-28-2006, 08:29 PM
It's not that Larry was a bad person who reformed and became a good person.
Good and bad is a spectrum in all of us, I think. If given the the right (or wrong)
circumstances we're all capable of bad actions and good actions. You know the old phrase, "if not for the grace of God, there go I". Not everyone who is homeless, rejected and lonely since birth commit such an unspeakable act, but as this site tells...the statistics arn't good. I believe all of us have limits that can be reached that can render us to cross the line of self control. Being a murderer was never the essence of Larry's being. Getting to know the people from his past (from childood through his imprisonment), I've learned that he always had a good heart. He took the weak, powerless, lost ones under his wing. He watched over them and showed them acceptance. Even animals!
I have a house full of stray rescued animals that Larry brought home. He seemed to want to give what he never recieved.
A story was told to the world in the form of his life.
Thanks for your interest and for seeing the person with a more generous hearted vision.
Christy
Excellent post! Peace be with you, Christy.

Peter Hamilton
09-28-2006, 10:17 PM
I remember this case!--I read the true crimebook on it many years ago--wow--an incredible final chapter has been written here---Although the murders were brutal,I always felt some sympathy for the kid because his adopted parents were brutal to him and his brother---His brother was beaten mercilessly by the adopted father---those two kids didn't have much of a chance in life---but I didn't realize that Larry only spent a few years in prison--he was lucky in that sense---still,its shocking when someone that young dies of a heart attack---Thanks for posting this account of a troubled life

cusilton
10-29-2006, 04:46 PM
Hi Valkyrie024,
I sent a private message, but I don't seem to have much luck getting them through. Please check and see if the message came through in your private message box.
Thanks you so much for sharing your memories of Larry. It means so very much to me.
Christy

cusilton
10-29-2006, 04:47 PM
Thank you Southcitymom!
Christy