WOW. The irony of her final two sentences: "My Dad taught me to appreciate life, and never take things for granted. I cannot begin to express how much of a loss my daughter and I are experiencing right now, without him present in our lives."
Well, he probably taught you to never take things for granted because he knew that there are horrible people out there willing to end your life one day for their own jollies. And the loss you are experiencing because you "lost" your dad is not quite the same as the loss of all his other victims and their families (also victims). Your freakin' dad is still alive and you have "lost" him as a result of HIS actions - which I guess does make her the same as all his victims' families since their loss was also a result of JD's actions. GRRRRRR.
I read the whole thing while shaking my head
I get that she finds it hard to believe that he is NOT the decent person he raised her to be. But she needs to pull her head out of her patootie. What was the point of those five pages? Did his attorneys really believe it would give him a lighter sentence?
I view the daughter's letter through the lens of compartmentalization. The men who are like GSK - Robert Lee Yates, Gary Ridgeway, etc - the ones who maintain families for various lengths of times -are essentially able to nearly completely separate their personas and live a double life. There are varying degrees of success with this.
In the case of Ted Bundy, his live-in girlfriend did report him to the police. Clearly, he was not able to keep the division between his two lives as clean as someone like Yates. I think that for those who have never experienced someone who can successfully compartmentalize like this, its hard to put ourselves in the shoes of family members.
It will take his daughter decades to come to terms with the other side of her father. That is not the side he showed her and why would she have any reason to think her loving father could be capable of such horror? How many times do we hear interviews from neighbors, friends, and co-workers who say "he was such a nice guy" after horrible crimes come to light? These "family guys" do the same thing with their families.
Ideally she would have expressed some empathy for the victims in this statement, but I'm guessing his defense team told her to write exclusively about her experience with her father.
Sorry, I know that was a rambling rant, but I'm struggling to have more than an ounce of empathy for her. I know she is also a victim and her devastation is real; I'm sure he never wanted his kids to know his history. But his good treatment of her does not negate one ounce of his evil. (I will add that her letter describes a rather strange relationship with her father, IMO.)