You are so right about that.
IMO, if he had taken the stand, it would have been like this forum in the sense that it is difficult to stay on topic....it could have easily transitioned from a custody hearing into a murder trial. IMO it would have turned into a series of objections and no progress would have been made. His intent was a given, he does not have to prove his love for his children....I can't really see what benefit it would have been for him to sit in a room full of people who are convinced that he did it...who hate him and are bitter towards him and articulate the love he has for his children. How easy would it be for any of us to sit among an audience of people who hate us..period?
I don't totally agree. He has had the chance to change peoples opinions, but not taking the opportunity to do it.
Testimony from JA & HP, they communicated and tried to help BC all they could with the girls beginning July 12th. They admitted they never saw, heard or witnessed him being physical or verbal with NC or the girls. This is (1) in BC favor IMO.
They testified to what they felt was control issues, mainly financial. But her own dad told he was going to tighten the purse strings on NC and he appeared to have known their financial situation better than friends. Other control issues such as passports, phone monitoring, water turn off, etc were discussed, but he could deny the phone issues and explained passports to have his family remain and work on the marriage, as well as the water turned right back on being an oversight of payment. #(2) in BC favor IMO.
After hearing all the plaintiff's testimony, I really think their thoughts, feelings, etc changed towards BC and his involvement in NC murder that week. His actions during the week of NC missing, found murdered and the memorial services. They would express his mannerism, no communication, no attendance, etc. IDK if they would feel so strong he is connected if he had done different in that week, especially attend the services.
A good strategic attorney who knew they had 3 hours and 15 minutes of testimony would call him last and ask BC 1 question....
Sandlin...Mr Cooper do you want Bella & Katie back and why?
BC...Yes, and he tells the court he loves them, he felt it was in the
best interest of his girl's for the past 3 months to be in Canada away from the media, etc, he has never been inappropriate to them, he has financially done all he can do, he took the passports not to control, but he realized he was loosing his family, and ends...damn I have tried I have really tried. I've lost my wife and now my kids? Shows some emotion.
Wade Smith has little to no time to advance the questioning to murder and murder is not the trial here. He can try, but he is running out of time as the clock ticks.
Sasser rulings were fair and I believe even calling Det. Daniels she was only going to allow testimony to advance to a certain point.
So I have to wonder what is going to come along and bite BC in the butt. What is he so scared of? What is he hiding? Why will he not challenge the CONTROL and MOTIVE issues?
"Actions speak louder than words" and IMO this is exactly what is occuring with this case.