It's interesting you thought of Sagittarius, Boyz_Mum. If Benjaman does have Sagittarius in his chart, I don't believe it's primary or all that prominent. Energetically I pick up more water and earth (Cancer, Pisces, Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn to be exact). I also pick up Saturn. It could be just his current demeanor due to his circumstances, but usually people give off a certain air or aura about them. I feel earth and water are his main elements, but I do agree that there is some fire in there, whether it is Sagittarius or another fire sign.
It's really difficult to speculate about this since I am working from memory of the Dr. Phil show I saw at the end of this past December. I wish the Dr. Phil videos were still available!
I'm glad this thread is bumped because I also want to inquire of those who care to share: why do you think Benjaman has become more private these past 4-1/2 years? I think that many people are having thoughts they are not sharing publicly, and I think there are things we do not know that might be useful. There is no judgment here, I am just sharing here what I have been thinking based on my review of the theory thread last week.
Edit:
I will be away most of today but have not forgotten about looking at some charts in this matter
---------------------------------------------------------------------Rhythmic Sun:
Thanks for posting this and asking the question:
IMO, yes there is a lot of relunctance about sharing thoughts on why BK is so much more private.
If by much more private you mean, he does not seem to answer any question at all.
And before any moderator or other poster gets too upset, I UNDERSTAND
BK is a crime victim. I understand that in the beginning he was taken advantage of by people who should have concentrated on just helping,
that he doesn't trust many people and with very good reason.
And I understand BK has NOT asked for our help, we do this because we want to.
BK has NOT said he would answer our questions.
Having said that,
I work on this case because I choose to. I work on it, despite misgivings I have that things are not what them seem.
I work on this case because it is a challenge.
BK's face does not match any of the missing men databases we can look at.
BK's fingerprints do not match databases.
After four years and seven months, he is barely any closer to finding out who he is than he was in the beginning.
We have a thread on what seems to be really true about his life, as he remembers it.
Gee, I cannot seem to get to the point.
I keep dancing all around it.
I want people to know I care about this case, I care that BK founds his identity or finds who attacked him and why. I care that he has a decent life from here on out.
BUT,
IMHO:
I feel BK knows more than he is telling anyone.
I feel he does not think it is any of our business.
I think he is grateful for the small clues we do find.
I don't think he cares if we find clues or not. He has
other help.
I think there is part of him that does not want to know who he is
and how he got into this mess.
I think BK has a big secret.
I don't care if he is gay. I don't care if he has never been married. I don't care if he has been married five times. I don't care if he was cheating with his best friend's wife and was caught. I don't care if
he ran away from his responsibilities.
I don't care if he burned his own business down.
I don't care if he betrayed everyone in his family and left town with $500,00. I don't care.
I don't care if he was a mean son of a gun and his kids left as soon as they were 18 and he cut them out of his will.
I don't care.
I don't care if he was a solitary man, with a solitary job, who never made any waves until some shock in his life happened when he was 55..
his parents died or his only child was murdered and he went to the ocean to take stock of his life.
I don't care.
I just want him to have his life back and make the rest of his life his own.
