seen several people give their opinions of fayetteville so I thought I would give mine as I live right outside of it. Fayetteville is the scummiest city I've ever been to. Strip clubs and pawn shops are the #1 businesses. It's full of crackheads, prostitutes, and thieves. Followed by bars, partying, drinking....
Most locals (people actually from fayetteville) don't like the military. They and the people from where I live have always referred to it as fayettenam as in it's such a messed up place it's like a warzone that you don't want into.
In another post I read that someone in the military who's married would not want people in their unit to know. From the military people I've met at fort bragg cheating is encouraged and covered up.
I'm not denying anything you are saying but I do believe it is exaggerated, stereo-typed, over generalized, and too widely spread.