OK, I've just caught up and have a few things to comment on...
As for GBC keeping notes on people, I think that this is quite normal and common practice, however, it would appear that he's not used that information correctly, it's not meant to be obvious LOL. When I owned a restaurant I used to keep notes on our regulars, but it was as simple as their preffered wine, pre dinner drink, how their steak was cooked etc, I had a great memory anyways, but it was handy to check if I was unsure and they were due in that night - so I could offer them their usual drink when they were seated and if they ordered a steak I could say 'Medium rare?' - it was part of us offering exceptional service, not being creepy LOL.
As for GBC taking the girls to the show, IMO, so he damn well should have! It was a big part of their lives apparently and why should they suffer?? It's wonderful for kids and if they get to go back with their grandparents too, then that's super awesome, they'd no doubt be happy to go all day everyday!! Those girls shouldn't suffer anymore than they have and if they're happy to go to the show with their dad, then they should be able to.
A previous poster asked if we 'wanted' GBC to be guilty... I don't, I sickens me to think that those girls might have to face that, but I really hope it isn't so!
Do I think that he's guilty... I think that given the small amount of info we have, I feel that he at least knows something! He may well be helping police? Or he may well be guilty as sin? Time will tell...
The suggestion of a suicide note is interesting... I wonder who could have written it? I wonder if it was typed or hand written? If this is in fact the case, then it makes me wonder if Allison was drugged (to appear as an OD in tox investigations) and then dumped, this would mean premeditation and maybe it wasn't GBC but someone close? MOO of course!
My head is spinning with it all...
Oh and great post Mountainhigh, very interesting! The 2 traumatic events could just be catastrophic for kids if they've not yet started to deal well with the first, so maybe they do need more time? Who are we do judge, I'm sure they're seeing psych's already and maybe they are talking to the police?
So so so so much that we just don't know...