Lyssav
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Yes, it was heart wrenching reading the families memorial page. For me, the situation with her husband makes it less likely that this is Benita. I know she could have run away but it's an awful long time to go without ever contacting her family. She had two little boys. If I had have seen the back story, I possibly wouldn't have submitted her. I got the impression from the memorial page, that her family accepts that she passed away. It almost makes me worry that they might stumble across this thread, especially if it's not Benita.
Ivy Doe is a good name.
I hope they don't come across this page either. I can only imagine how devastating it would be for them. However, if Sheila and Wanda are ruled out they will be asking for a DNA sample for Benita and Stacey. You never know how family will react, this maybe some information they have been looking for, for some it only brings more heartache and for others it starts the healing process. If they happen to come across the page they should know that we care very deeply for Ivy and for all of the missing and unidentified, and we are here to help. It's amazing how much you can care so much about someone you don't even know.