I came to this board the Friday, after BC went missing on Thursday night. I didn’t know her, only knew she was a woman close to my age that lived not that terribly far from me, and seemed like a loving family woman. Her story touched me. Her family’s pain touched me. Touched me so much that I couldn’t sleep the night she was found.
I came to this board with no idea what might have happened to her, and certainly didn’t know any of the players, be it family members of BC or of the accused. All of these people were/are strangers to me. I have no clue if CL is guilty or not, but I base my opinions on facts, which we have not seen much of. If she is guilty, then I pray like the rest of you, she has to face the punishment for the crime. But a rush to judgment, to convict anyone, is not justice for BC. Justice will never truly come for her family, because she is gone. Unless the people who did this to BC confess, then they have a lot of horrible things that they will have to face, once defense attorneys get involved. I have heard some of the rumors that have been floating around Little Rock, and I imagine those are mild compared to what will be said at the trial. This is one of those things that are hard to understand. The age old question of why do bad things happened to good people?
The Carter family’s life will never be entirely the same. If CL is guilty or innocent, her family’s life will never be the same either. Were she to be found innocent, she is still a marked woman, and that stain will always be on her children as well.
A school teacher not far from us was accused of having sex with two students in her middle school class. She of course was arrested, her family life, the good and bad was strewn all over the news. She lost her job. Her husband left her. Her friends turned away from her and her life was in ruins. On Monday those two boys admitted they lied. Made the whole thing up. A year of this teacher’s life gone and thousands of dollars spent to prove her innocent, of something she didn’t do to begin with. Sure she can get her teaching license reinstated, but do you think the stain that has been put on her name and her family will ever go away. Not entirely it won’t. There will always be people who believe that she is guilty.
None of us, no matter how well and moral we try to lives, are guaranteed to not have something horrible happen to us. I don’t ever want to be the person that judges without knowing the full story. So yes, I will continue to state my opinions, as will the rest of you, but please don’t ever insulate to me, either on this board or in PM’s that I don’t care for BC and her family. I find that highly insulting.