Wow, just wow. Can I ask, were the mind games similar to what Rachael's daughters have described? If I am out of line, slap my hand Fapone.
He'd spy on me. I didn't know it at the time. Had a feeling. (Your not paranoid if there really is someone watching) It wasn't until a couple years later that I found out he really was watching from the shadows. He admitted it to me. He would climb up the roof and peak into the bathroom while I showered. He would hide in the bushes and behind trees to spy on my comings and goings. I always felt spooked. I was afraid he'd brake in and hurt me or the kids. He did one time and when I woke up, my son was gone. (he was only two & half at the time.) He kidnapped my son again another time, but the police picked him up in Wilcox AZ. I think he called a few times. Only breathing on the other side of the phone. I can't be sure it was him. But I had no other enemies at the time. He reported to CPS (child protective services) that the kids weren't being taken care of. CPS would not divuldge who made the report until I explained my situation to them and asked if it was him. Crappy things like that.
The thing that scared me most though was that he could get ANYONE to buy into his story. Even the authorities. He was really good at it. Sociopathic. IMO.
So, yeah, my experience was similar to what her daughter has reported of Rachael's experiences with CC.