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Agree with your assessment of Kaine's persona. Kaine has moved into work mode for Kyron’s case and has made LE his new Intel. Managing the family side of Kyron’s case is his new job. I’m guessing he works off a constantly refined plan and makes to-do lists daily with his whole team. The first thing he does every morning is call LE to see what they need him to do that day.
I respectfully disagree that Kyron's father should abdicate these responsibilities to Desiree. He is Kyron's father, and custodial father, after all. His place is right there, with Kyron's mother.
Kaine seems willing (and is likely capable) to organize and lead & handle uncomfortable conflicts. By taking those responsibilities, he frees up Desiree as the sympathetic face, heartfelt and genuine voice for Kyron and his family. His administrative role lets Desiree be her maternal self - just Desiree.
And we agree - that that is the best way to use Desiree. She does a great job.
IMO, this just a good business decision - dividing those tasks. Tony could be the group leader, perhaps, but there would only have been criticism about Kaine if he did.
In time Kaine & the press will figure this awkwardness out...they have to - for Kyron.
Finally, I think Kaine's stepping it up here in a leadership/organizational role is another fact which points to Kaine's lack of involvement in Kyron's disapearrance. Perps don’t ask the media to meet with them twice a week. Perps don't put themselves into the spotlight, especially if they are private people.
yes mods, smooth but sincere move there to stay on-topic.
HI there Ms. Emma! No doubt Kaine has gone into work mode and is approaching his missing son as he would a design flaw in one of his engineering projects. I wonder how long it will take him to realize that the management tactics he has been using are not effective? I would never give Kaine the credit for controlling LE and I won't give him the credit for managing conflict - he has created more turmoil and conflict than the other players combined. And I agree, except for the Ted Bundy''s of the world, most perps, with direct involvement, would not normally place him/herself in such a confrontational situation with the media and judgmental America. I doubt that speaks to his innocence in all aspects of this case.
moo mho
I wonder when Kaine will realize his game plan isn't working - most eyes are now on his divorce and RO. He has kicked out two major local papers that he will need and will have to rely on if this case should go cold. What works in the Intel work environment is not working here. IMO his designs are filled with spite and punishment, emotions that are, hopefully, unacceptable in the work environment at Intel.
I highly doubt Desiree would allow herself to be 'used' by Kaine, in any way. This would be the second time she will have lost Kyron in a situation with Kaine involved. Ms. Emmy, I just know you didn't mean it the way you wrote it.
No doubt in my mind Kaine is filled with grief. There are people who channel their grief into action because that's what makes them feel effective, and what they know how to do best - but come on, it's quite a distraction and imo not in the best interest of missing Kyron. He needs to give up the reign of his fleet and let others take it over...I believe he should allow Desiree more time and allow her to speak for the three of them "gulp". Quit the orchestration of events and get back to the basics of finding justice for Kyron "gulp". If Kaine can't do that - than I say it's time for him to retire or coach from the sidelines. moo mho