If that's true, it may be time for AS to tone it down a bit. She has plenty of experience with volatile divorce situations, and she must know the statistic that the most dangerous time for a woman in the marriage is at the time of separation. If she is writing up separation agreements that are over the top, it's time for her to realize that she is pushing a really big trigger for conflict - which is the very last thing a divorce lawyer should be doing.
Well, I dont know why I would have been told that if it wasnt true. My friend has been a divorce attorney for a long time and knows all the players in the RDU area very well.
I was told Alice always comes out with ridiculous first drafts and then the negotiations start. The sep agreement wasnt worth killing over. Just because they're asking for all that stuff didnt mean she was going to get it. They have guidelines for all that.