ARACHNE1... (I wondered which one of us was going to fall asleep first as we were "the late night posters" on this thread, Friday.
My secret is the "one hour edit button" and no more PUI's, ie, "Posting Under the Influence." The second glass of wine mteresa's love for her daughtersakes me a little testy
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But I digress. MrsP's letter was the ultimate supplication for the safety of the girls I read nothing but concern, Motherly love and a marvelous woman willing to do anything to keep the channel of communications open in an increasingly fearful situation. Rumors were getting louder, MS getting paranoid, and closing off anyone who dared to disagree with him.
I have read the letter many times as I retyped her words....and dhaaang...I couldn't help shake the thought this is exactly how a "trained hostage negotiator" would talk to a perp, coaxing them off a ledge or making sure the hostages will be safe and peaceful resolution found to end the crisis:
I understand your feelings... (
your crazy *advertiser censored* feelings are validated.)
I feel the same way, too...
(mirroring his emotions)
I am here for you... (
supplication and bonding)
Never, never mention the crime ie, (
"Teresa was murdered" but she never mentions the words crime, criminal, guilt etc.)
How can I help you.? ... (
make perp feel in control of choices)
We have plenty of options.... (
it doesn't have to end badly)
Anyway, it was absolutely amazing!! I think there were
many unsung heroes who worked tirelessly to keep those children safe.
BTW...I read DrP's deposition, all 108 pages in one night and wrote 6 pages of notes & thoughts about its content. What was noteworthy for me, was DrP's insistence at meeting at the beach when dealing with Mark Sievers.. hmmmm, the beach would allow for a public and open area, easy surveillance, beach wear makes it harder to conceal a weapon and definitely cut the escape routes in half! (Unless MS is an exceptionally fast swimmer.
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