As I was completing reading the new posts after I retired for the evening.
I just wanted to point out something that came to mind. I once knew a married couple. They were a bit older, and I did not live in their area, but I saw them frequently when I was in that area. I saw them in church and other related social functions, and I visited their home on a couple of occasions.
I did not see anything at all amiss.
Later, the woman left him because he had been physically and mentally abusive to her for years!
Just because you don't observe it does not mean it does not happen.
I just wanted to point out something that came to mind. I once knew a married couple. They were a bit older, and I did not live in their area, but I saw them frequently when I was in that area. I saw them in church and other related social functions, and I visited their home on a couple of occasions.
I did not see anything at all amiss.
Later, the woman left him because he had been physically and mentally abusive to her for years!
Just because you don't observe it does not mean it does not happen.