ok, I found it!
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he does specifically recall Josh implying that he had somewhere to be. The way that Eric described it is that there was something about the way that Josh said he needed to go that it strongly suggested he had somewhere to be. That's all we know. And that perception could have been wrong. That perception could have been dead on. Right? We just don't know."
BBM
text lifted from
Simply Vanished | S1 E1 Music in the Night
disclaimer: now... some people may not like what i am about to do. and to that, i say; think outside the box. that's my speciality (if i have one!). thinking "inside" the box is not going to solve this, we need to make some (sensible) leaps of logic in order to figure out what happened
so that being said,...effectively...Josh said something along the lines of "I need to go" (don't quote this, I am summising from Eric's statement above!!!). its probably important not to read into it too much....but you guessed it,i am about to... because it could be critical
choice of words is important and the meaning behind them is fundamentally different. i "want" to go, is very different than i "would like" to go, which is different to i "am looking forward to going" to .... etc. you get the point.
to me (BBM), the word "
need" implies that it
has to be done...it's something that cannot wait for a long period of time, and must be attended to. I'd use that word when something is pretty damn necessary, for example; "i
need to post that letter!"
the dictionary definition of the word "need" is "
circumstances in which something is necessary, or that require some course of action; necessity."
so reading between the lines, summising and using some basic logical leaps of faith, with that statement Eric heard (and assuming i am understanding it correctly....), Josh likely felt like it was necessary for him to be somewhere. the statement tells me that it likely was not planned (as i say in #965).If it was a planned "date", the wording would have been more likely "im going to" or "i am meeting" etc etc
now, where would josh "need" to be. what would be (in his mind) necessary for him to do around midnight?
1) go to sleep? unlikely, bed doesnt seem important enough to give a vague description to your friends
2) get more beers? unlikely too, the netflix episode suggestedd that josh went back in to maur house to get more beers
3) to see a monk? fairly unlikely, but not impossible... i read monks bedtimes were not usually this late into the night (how true that is, i dont know, but the chances seem a little slim)
4) to go to katies place? - josh did have an invite earlier that evening. plus his best friend was over there. this seems plausible
5) for a midnight date - i dont give this idea much credence,i dont get the impression that josh was the kind of guy to have late night rendezvous,plus this would involve some planning rather than spontaneity
6) late night drive - netflix episode says joshs car didnt move during the night
7) return to maur house for any other reasons apart from sleep/beers? what else can you do at maur house? besides, greg and alex are already at the poker party...so they arent there. katie is at her place, josh best friend/room mate is out. going back to maur house seems fruitless, there wouldnt be too much "need" to be there
that is my thoughts on the statement Eric said on the podcast!