shimmer29!
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100% this. Me too, that has been my experience. If not totally oblivious, then left with that unexplainable “what is going on here?” feeling. Then once you know for sure, or it is confirmed for you, it all makes sense. And you are much more alert to it the next time and it is clearer sooner. But you tend to give people you know and love the benefit of the doubt.I'm going to have to somewhat disagree with you on this. I too have personal experience with people close to me and I was totally oblivious to it. I'm not naive, and looking back I might have misread some pretty strong indicators, but based on my own experience I'm not going to assume anything about what somebody else knew.
It took a looooong time for me to get here.