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I had to quote you because I absolutely agree with all you said and felt thanks wasn't enough. I will be absolutely livid if there really was an obstruction in the plumbing after she went missing and LE was not notified or did not investigate properly. The "obstruction" screams of evidence...

Wow...Poor Elisa Lam. I originally watched the video last night and immediately thought she was on drugs. But her actions made my gut drop so I backed away. Today I told my self I would learn more by reading the whole thread (I had already read some when she originally went missing, before the...

Regarding alibis-I would be soooo screwed. Tuesday Evening-Friday Evening my husband works out of town (he works from home mon&tues). I'm a kind of "reclusive" person. I go out on my back porch to smoke, but it's surrounded by a rather high privacy fence. The only other time I could possibly be...

Finally caught up! A lot happened last night, and I'm happy JR's thread is moving again! I noticed it was pointed out that a lot of spouses have affairs and it doesn't result in a missing person....thank goodness for that! I also noticed that it was said if a spouse were permitted to have an...

Is the explanation the one about her changes being a sudden overnight change comparable to that of an 11 yr old girl vs a 16 yr old girl? Because as I stated yesterday, I read every single one of your posts and that's the only one that comes even close to an explanation of what you were talking...

I'm willing to start this list, since we have others going and once again for the sake of fairness. Benefit #1:No risk/threat of having to pay child support #2: No risk/threat of having to pay"maintenance" #3: No risk/threat of losing his home to her #4: No risk of public smearing of his image...

After spending every free minute of my day, I finally found that darn post! Seee....I'm not crazy lol. I'm hoping Lavanda can elaborate maybe just a little more on this. It might point us in the right direction, in a different direction than the one we've been stuck in. I don't know how to quote...

Sorry for quoting myself, but I'm still searching for this post, I think maybe it was removed. But I wanted to add that after going over Lavanda's posts (sorry-not stalking, I promise! Just trying to get his side of the story again) It has been stated that her change was like a sudden overnight...

About the sauna: IIRC, it was at a local Y? Do we know if he/they had a membership to the Y or if he just paid to use the sauna one time? I know at my local Y you can use their facilities without having a membership but you do have to pay per use. If they did have a membership, what for? What...

I recall a post made by Lavanda that said something like she had a "light bulb moment" about what might have been going on in JR's life before she left and she brought it up to GR and he agreed or said that could very well be or something like that and started to cry. I can't find the post now...

Possibly a serious personality break/mental break. I think it was described by Lavanda as a very fast, almost overnight change comparable to an 11 year old girl vs a 16 year old girl. I know she has said it wasn't due to medical or drug issues....but I have to wonder when her most recent MRI...

Did she have her own place while they were separated or was she staying with JR?

I'm still trying to catch up, but even before Kimster posted about keeping discussion on track I wanted to say this: I think the list about his behaviors/red flags is a great one. But I also want to suggest (for the sake of keeping it fair) that we make a list of the things about JR that might...

Welcome BearAngel, and thank you for the great first post! I look forward to reading your thoughts/posts and would love to know more about how locals are feeling. I think the Cal Harris reversal is a very likely reason that LE is so quiet. I think the FB post is seriously drawing our focus away...

Oh I think it's definitely intentional. If you break down what is being said, you have to believe one scenario or the other. There are things pointing to "she totally left" and there are things pointing to "oh he totally did it". Somewhere in there is the truth. It makes me sad to think we might...

I totally agree SouthAussie, and I hope my post was not misunderstood. I'm very thankful for Jillian, who has been able to speak of a side that no one else was able to confirm. I'm thankful for both sides, just wish there wasn't so much confusion.

Divorce may be easy but child support, alimony, giving up the house, dissolving/splitting up assets is not easy at all. Especially if you are the bread winner and don't want to share your income after a split, or if feel you "have the right" to say where your money goes. If a husband is used to...

Does anyone know (locals?) if there have been anymore "unpublicized" searches done by LE? Seems for a bit we were hearing that they were doing a few searches here and there, but now even that isn't being brought up. What has the weather been like these past few days? Is there snow on the ground...

Finally getting the time to check out the validity of the likes/dislikes list (from this morning we found her favorite drink has been water w/lemon for years, but they say she only recently started drinking it). I feel like there was another difference we found, but can't think of it right now...

Something that keeps sticking out to me...The way it has been worded that she recently started playing games on social media and making friends, makes it sound like that was also one of her "recent changes". A little sleuthing shows she has had a gaming/online/social media presence for a very...