I can't see the defense doing that either...but just as an fyi...DV is a club that no one wants to belong to...but the ability to speak about it most certainly shows positive growth. Those that have suffered from it whether it's physical or emotional abuse are often unable to bring themselves to talk about it...so bravo to those that can come and give their 2 cents!! I appreciate those that bring any knowledge to understanding a case...everyone comes from a place of experince. Look at all the marvelous techies here...I've learned so much.
Think we will ever know why the defense question about the non-exist address on Greenstone Lane?
Expect there will be many questions that will remain unanswered. That's real life.
The milk in the middle of the night came out through the PI McGough's testimony. Once was just milk, the other was milk and green juice at like 2am.
I think they probably do want to take a peak back at the green juice. And I think it was brought out in trial that the last laundry detergent purchase was ~7 weeks prior--but that is a good point that they would want to verify that.
I couldn't agree more.
I believed every word of his testimony and he even did experiments on the blood spatter on his own time to prove various things about all of that blood, where it went, and how it got there. I was impressed with his diligence.
I hope he can find another job in his area of expertise as I, too, feel that he was railroaded. Big time.
If there was not one single qualifier of an abusive relationship there, then why have so many posters come forward and shared their personal stories and say they relate to NC? Were you in a DV marriage? If your answer is no, perhaps you need to spend less time invalidating the emotional experiences of many others, and devote more time to trying to identify with those experiences.
You can't stop thinking about JA? Well, I can't stop thinking about BC and his face yesterday when Cummings finished his closing.
Hi less :crazy:
(Your post above agreed with dramamama apropos JA's difficult times.)
Ditto me.
Something I notice is that the 3 women central to the case are continually dissed in here by BDDI's. NC, JA and AS.
All 3, (among other crucial witnesses of NC's family and other friends), unwittingly ended up with a deadly, vital and critical role (respectively) in NC's murder.
JA was very close to NC, was exceptionally worried about her - JA listened to NC and I believe she could "see through" BC, and has to have gone to hell and back during this case. It must have taken a toll on her, by all accounts. AS was NC's legal pillar - giving constructive, step-by-step advice to NC as to how to manage the divorce.
Neither are accused of anything and the dissing only makes me believe BC is definitely guilty. Shooting the messenger is obsolete; it does not provide valid, plausible and feasible reasons why anyone else would have wanted NC dead. I read more that folk hope it was someone else. Sadly, in my heart - the only someone to have had means motive and the opportunity to do this is BC. And he's up for murder.
JMO
I have felt strange vibes from the beginning about GM. I watched his first testimony on video stream, no idea where it was going, noted that the timing of when they were at lunch must be important, and that his having to call NC back and tell her (now everyone) that he had failed the exam. I attributed vibes to his having his exam results made public.
After rewatching this and his other testimony, I believe GM was irritated at BC, resented BC's achievements and upset by his recent lack thereof, and saw behavior by BC as deliberate slights to belittle GM. Remember how he described BC answering NC call and going outside. I think this was building over a long time, becoming intense after the murder.
Being the hero, tinged with a bit of payback.
IMO Another person wanting to help protect the prosecution's case, frustrated when challenged by defense.
Welcome back. As you know, we probably do not see everything the same, but I respect your opinions. First, I agree that BC is the number one candidate for this murder, but why should we not examine closely any person connected to the victim, including her best friend? I think this is only fair, and it is no more incorrect or correct than doing that with BC. In the truth and veracity department, there were some challenges for several of the players in this case, including pressure for everyone to comply with doing BC in. Many folks simply aren't as convinced as the BDI'ers are. There is nothing wrong with looking closely at the evidence and having alternate theories. What is wrong in my opinion is dissing day after day of everyone involved in the case and also those who do not agree with a certain opinion. I would love to be a fly on the wall in that jury room though. This has been a very fascinating case, although very sad in many ways.
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Interesting, WPW .... If we backdate the time line 7 weeks - NC may have done her monthly shop of detergent 4 weeks before going on 2 week vac with her family. We know Brad was an untidy slob - did absolutely zero cleaning and was so bad, in fact, that NC had to call in pest-control folk during the week she was back. Circa 7 weeks since last purchase ... makes reasonable and valid sense to me.
Suddenly, on the day/early morning NC disappers, BC's out buying laundry detergent before dawn ... changes his clothes between shop visits - and then proceeds to do a zillion washes? While his wife is missing? When he's not known to be "clean"? And when CPD ask for the dress - BC confuses its color? But washes it because he saw a stain and only hands it over clean? But he didn't wash the clothes HE was wearing? They just flew into cyber-space? Vanished?
THAT stain on NC's dress that BC described may have been critical evidence. BC purposely did what he did. The more I read and am reminded of these issues the more I am convinced, in my opinion, that BC is guilty of this crime.
Why would he do all of the above? It's nonsensical. Goes to cover-up, denial & deception. Rings loud and clear to me. How could these things just all happen so quickly in succession to one unfortunate VOip, CCIE, PhD, controlling, hate-ridden, revengeful and silent, email-snooping husband?
Oh, I know ... he was set-up. That's it! Framed by CPD in advance (had to be), There is no such thing as a coincidence in murder. Way too many with BC, IMO.
Methinks the BDDI's are too ready and eager to explain away every inconsistency.
Did he change his clothes, or did he change shoes?
If it was seven weeks since laundry detergent was purchased, does that mean that $300/mo was not enough to afford detergent, no one was doing laundry, or one box of detergent lasts seven weeks?
In the week before Nancy disappeared, she was returning from two weeks vacation with the chidlren, she called pest control and there were piles of dishes and laundry. She was upset with Brad and he was trying to work it out by meeting with financial advisors and marriage counsellors. Perhaps he was cleaning like a maniac that morning ... to appease.
Nancy was wearing a black dress on July 11. It appears that she changed into a blue-green dress for the party where she got together with Brad. After his wife was missing, Brad was confused whether she wore a black dress, a blue dress, or a green dress. Perhaps he was hiding the dress, perhaps he was not paying attention.
I don't think he was framed, but I do think there was some monkey business with the phone and if the phone was monkeyed with, what else was monkeyed with.
Is that an inconsistency that cannot be explained.
Welcome back. As you know, we probably do not see everything the same, but I respect your opinions. First, I agree that BC is the number one candidate for this murder, but why should we not examine closely any person connected to the victim, including her best friend? I think this is only fair, and it is no more incorrect or correct than doing that with BC. In the truth and veracity department, there were some challenges for several of the players in this case, including pressure for everyone to comply with doing BC in. Many folks simply aren't as convinced as the BDI'ers are. There is nothing wrong with looking closely at the evidence and having alternate theories. What is wrong in my opinion is dissing day after day of everyone involved in the case and also those who do not agree with a certain opinion. I would love to be a fly on the wall in that jury room though. This has been a very fascinating case, although very sad in many ways.
Comments about Nancy being in a "controlling" marriage don't hold water for me. Anyone that has been in a controlling relationship knows that they cannot spend freely, they cannot come and go as they please, they are slowly and gradually isolated from family and then friends, they become a shell of their former selves and they are eventually completely unsure of everything they think and do. In my opinion, that was not Nancy. Nancy was put on a budget and prevented from taking the children and leaving the country. There are laws preventing one parent from taking the children and leaving the country because it's not okay. Having a strict budget is normal in families that have healthy finances.
I think the biggest clue that Nancy was not in a controlling relationship is that she was free to talk about her marital frustrations. Women in controlling relationships typically put up a good front in public (someone mentioned the word "ashamed") because they are being controlled. They are not out sociallizing because their husbands want to know exactly what they're doing all the time. Their husbands are insecure, territorial and jealous but act aloof.
Verbally abusive relationships involve a stream of put-downs to the point where a woman's self-esteem is destroyed. Again, I don't see this in Nancy. She was buying interview suits, in contact with a former boyfriend, arranging interviews, going on vacations and enjoying herself. She did not seem to be suffering self-esteem problems.
Was that the only hair tie she owned?