Well I'm 31. I have green hair. I like wearing punk clothing, and on occasion spend time hanging out with gutter punks.I *always* look pissed off. I lost 50 lbs in a matter of 2 months. I like to listen to SOAD, Dimmu Borgir, Stabbing Westward. I also have friends that are lawyers and doctors and retail workers. I have friends with long hair, short hair, blue hair, no hair, and rainbow hair. I lived in a ghetto for several years and I many patrol officers make me paranoid. I have a daughter. She's 9. She's given a LOT of freedom to choose her own clothing and hair styles and lots of other things. Her favorite songs are by Papa Roach and the Dresden Dolls. That's all that anyone sees. When I have to be bothered to go to a store, Im always wearing a hoodie and go with my obnoxiously loud music on my mp3 player.... That way, I don't have to overhear all of the gossip.
What people dont see is that I'm practically a hermit. I don't drink, smoke, and have never done illegal drugs... I haven't even smoked a J. I can't stand to be around most drug addicts and drunks. I've never been to jail, but I don't like most cops because of two incidents of getting pulled over and detained during routine traffic stops (tail lights out) in the pouring rain for 30 minutes because the officer kept misspelling the name of the driver of the car. I sometimes like the MUSIC or playing abilities of a band/its members, but not necessarily their lyrics, but the loud racket gets my adrenaline going and motivates me to not just sit around on my bum. I take my mp3 player when I do have to go out so I dont have to be forced to overhear anyone's gossip. Whats on that MP3 player besides SOAD, Dimmu, and SW? Dave Matthews, Collin Raye, Rob Thomas. As for my daughter.... She's extremely modest and she loves most music. She's an A & B student with friends. I've only heard her say one mean thing about anyone, ever. Even as a toddler the usual "HEY LOOK MOM! She's fat!" kind of thing never came out of her mouth. She plays soccer with her friends, teaches younger children to read.
I'd really hate to be judged by the photo of me from when I attempted to teach someone how to do "Dresden Dolls" style make up for Halloween or just by seeing me. We all have our suspicions and general knowledge in the case... but just sayin. How would a lot of you made me out to be?