southcitymom
Well-Known Member
Let us say, that my experience on how to say things politely has been colored vividly by a different message board I belong to. There is an entire forum there, where flaming (within reason, no death threats, no personal info posted and the like) is permitted. The rest of the board, is dedicated to fighting ignorance. Here is one example from that board, this is another, and yet another by the previous author. (You might be able to guess my identity there, but please do not post it here, it is my "net safety" ID.*) The person who inspired the board, is known not only for their wit, but also their cutting snarky humor. I am a product of those boards, and actually I have toned things down here *A LOT* compared to what I would say in the BBQ Pit there. I am working to remain "halfway" while posting here, but I do have limits, and "hotbuttons", just like anybody else.
*Also, read all the rules, FAQs, posting and etiquette guides before joining and know that after 30 days your guest membership expires and you either must pay to remain a member or lose your membership, there are members who sponser others, some new guests have either asked or been gifted with memberships, I've been sponsered myself. Repeat guests are found out and perma-banned. I get along there pretty well, with the exception of the subset of the boards known as "snarkers" who are worse even than the topics I linked to, by FAR.
I definitely hear how a board like that could temper you, KatK. I feel like most of the posters here feel very strongly about their own opinions too.
One of the things that makes Websleuths such an amazing place, IMHO, is that the people here can disagree vehemently, but remain kind and considerate. That is a super special aspect of this place and I do not wish for it to change.
That doesn't mean that we are humorless or that we don't get snarky from time to time. I felt a bit bitchy getting involved in this, but Amraann (a person who I definitely don't always see eye-to-eye with about certain issues) is someone I care about and someone who, without fail, cares a great deal about people who have suffered abuse.
I am glad you are here KatK and do look forward to hearing more about some of your experiences and opinions. I'd just prefer that they not be wrapped around aggression towards other posters.