How can her parents reconcile with that baby killer. They should do themselves a favor and cut her out like cancer.
I know we've all heard the saying a mama tells their youngin' in jest..."I brought you into this world and I will take you out!"
I think this is the one time it should be followed through with.
Listen I've always told my kids that should they ever take someone's life with premeditation or being downright evil.... I would fight against them with the prosecutor. I wouldn't visit them in jail and I damn sure would never help them in ANY way. You do the crime you do the time and I doubt I'd forgive you even then.
Now if this situation happened to my grandchild??? OH HELL NO.
My kid wouldn't make it to jail at least not in one piece.
I am sorry I feel nothing for her parents. AT ALL.
She says now she was living with them when little Caylee died? THEN WHY DID IT TAKE A MONTH TO CALL THE COPS?
They raised this psychopath and they would have known immediately what really happened.
I swear I've always felt that Casey blamed her own parents for HER HAVING to kill her child. Like:
Casey: "SEE I told you something would happen if you didn't keep her!"
And she did it to "punish" her parents.
Yes I'm sure they loved Caylee more than Casey. Who wouldn't?
You have Casey, the ugliest demon straight out of hell preening her horns on one hand
and then you have this beautiful doll of an angel that figuratively had wings and was innocent and HAD A SOUL.
Who would you pick?
This case seriously haunts me. For personal reasons I won't go into but....
There are narcissistic psychopaths out there and when you know one it scares the hell out of you.
You can see them trying to pretend to be normal and fake feelings just to get what they want.
THEY DO NOT CARE.
It doesn't matter how good a parent you are and how well you raise them, they are unsalvageable.They were
born that way and nothing you or anyone can do will help them.
BELIEVE ME.
You can have two children raised on the same principals and same ideas and one turns out to be wonderfully loving and caring about EVERYONE and then your other can be totally deranged. It only gets worse as they get older too.
They will use their child as leverage and as a pawn. They would not blink if they had to destroy that pawn to get what they want.
Seriously. ALL the money in the world won't fix them. All the counseling and medication short of thorazine on a IV drip won't help them. They feel they are perfect and anything they do is ok. They will punish you by withholding your grandchild for months that YOU raised and that your grandbaby depends on your stability and love. They do not care AT ALL that they are hurting the child. Believe me. They will say and do anything to get what they want. They are EXTREME manipulators and everyone close to them suffers constantly due to their inability to truly love anyone. The only person they love is themselves. But even that is distorted because when they look in the mirror they don't see themselves.... they see what they think exists. I hope that makes sense?
They can't understand why no one will stay with them for long and those who do manage it for a while will be forever messed up mentally.
I can tell you FROM experience that it is very easy for them to hide your grandchild and manipulate everyone around them into believing lies so that they will help them hide your grandchild.
They move into hiding, change their phone number contaminate anyone they are around with straight up lies to help in their erratic behavior. They are easily sucked in at first but then quickly realize (too late) what the truth is and by then they as guilty as the mother. They can completely manipulate DFACS and anyone they need to in order to keep their pawn close.
It's heartbreaking. It rips you wide open. Nothing hurts more than your child being this cold and unfeeling. It's literally like they are born without the right and wrong part of their brain.
I'm there. This has been my nightmare for 2 years now. That this will happen to us and our grandbaby. Every time the phone rings now I get anxiety.
A good friend of mine who is a psychologist told me that most psych docs won't even work with these types of individuals. Because they can't be fixed. EVER.
Instead they treat the family members and those affected by them.
I pray every day that my family doesn't end up being a thread here.
But I will tell you this. I would NOT support my child. I would completely cut her off and work against her to make sure she's convicted. Because unlike Casey's parents, I would understand that it was my grandchild who was the victim. Not the animal who caused her death.
A month. and no one was asking questions? No one had laid eyes on her? I'm sorry but her parents helped her cover up the crime. I'm sure they were manipulated into it mind you... but they still helped her. And covered it for 31 days.
It's possible they never knew where her body was I'm sure but they still helped cover it up and protected the wrong person.
Casey used her pawn in the ultimate way. She destroyed her.
The reason I say this is to say from someone going through life dealing with a monster like this, that not all parents would support their baby killer daughter.
I wouldn't visit her either. Except maybe to hold up a picture the whole time of that beautiful baby and say nothing. Just to make sure she never forgets what she did.
She should be behind bars or waiting on death row. Society shouldn't have to continually deal with sick people like this. I
am serious when I say that too. There is nothing that can truly fix them or even help them. They just manipulate the doctor too.
They are ALWAYS the victim. They take no responsibility for their actions. Their apologies are just words to them. They can't love anyone truly. Loving them is hard to do when you know they are lying to your face and manipulating you. I love my daughter. But I have learned to protect my heart too. It's a difficult road but you can only take it one step at a time. I've thought about this for a VERY long time. My feelings have never wavered about it either. I'm very sure others would handle it different in this situation but when it comes to what Casey did.....there is and can be no forgiveness for me at least. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. TRUTH.
Sorry for the long rant but I wanted to explain why I also hate her parents.
If she WAS living with them, they damn well knew she didn't have no babysitter and little Caylee was missing. They knew for 31 days in fact. So personally they should go to jail for their part they played in the cover up. I've always felt this way too.
The judicial system failed an innocent child.
I am still mad and always will be about this case. If for no other reason than others like Casey will think they can get away with it too.
Casey you are a broken person. You were broken all your life. You hurt anyone that came into contact with you and you know it. No one left from a relationship with you, intact. You will never know what love feels like and for that one thing I feel sorry for you. Because you will never understand how much your daughter loved you and trusted you blindly. She was an innocent. You destroyed her. But the one thing you can't control is the hate that the population has for you. That will never change. You will always be hated. You got lucky and got out of jail. You shouldn't have.
So do EVERYONE a favor and stay to yourself and don't manipulate anyone else. Don't get married. Don't have another child. Just live your life quietly somewhere and TRY to do something good with the years you have left. Think before you speak. Matter of fact don't speak. Don't get pets either. Don't hurt anyone else ever again.
To Casey's parents. I feel for you. I know the hell you have lived. But that does not excuse what you did. You don't have to love her or ever make up with her. You don't.
Nothing you did or could ever do will change her or help her. But by continuing to ride this money train you have become JUST as guilty as Casey. You are riding on the back of an innocent child buried in the ground. Who was there when she needed someone?
You should have turned her in IMMEDIATELY. No ifs, ands, or buts. That is when you crossed the line. That is when you committed a crime. You should have let her pay the price of taking that precious child's life. You allowed her to use you as a "excuse" for her behavior. You helped her manipulate that trial. You helped her get freedom. You did wrong.
So instead of trying to make amends with her.... try volunteering or something like that. Heal yourselves and walk away from her.
Again you could never have fixed her. Nothing you did would have made her right. So let her go. She can never reciprocate your love so why even bother?
Rant over. :deepbreaths::deepbreaths::twocents: