I was a drug addict at 14 no ones fault but my own. Never blamed anyone and never asked anyone for help I cleaned myself up over a few years in mid 20s. Still have many friends still addicted and some that died from drugs. AR burnt his bridges his old enough to wake up plus he was old enough to know better when he started taking drugs.How do you get to that place........ by being enabled.
Rewards for bad behavior. ....just reinforce it.
Definitely time for him to "Man Up" though ......
I was a drug addict at 14 no ones fault but my own. Never blamed anyone and never asked anyone for help I cleaned myself up over a few years in mid 20s. Still have many friends still addicted and some that died from drugs. AR burnt his bridges his old enough to wake up plus he was old enough to know better when he started taking drugs.
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It was hard but I finally realized I didn't want to end up like alot of the people I meet.Congratulations on your sobriety, and good for you to have turned your life around, you must be very proud of your achievements. I'm sure it's no easy path to walk.
And i totally agree with what you say.
There have been many reports of Female school teachers having affairs with their teen students. I dont think its predominant behaviour in Teachers, its just reported in the media more. It's completely plausible that KR had an affair with a young AR!
I was a drug addict at 14 no ones fault but my own. Never blamed anyone and never asked anyone for help I cleaned myself up over a few years in mid 20s. Still have many friends still addicted and some that died from drugs. AR burnt his bridges his old enough to wake up plus he was old enough to know better when he started taking drugs.
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AR's ex went into quite some detail about it all early on. Not sure if any of its in the earlier threads.
It was hard but I finally realized I didn't want to end up like alot of the people I meet.
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Karinna ...... I think ink is just pointing out that young women in their twenties have been known to carry on affairs with younger men ..... there have been a few msm reports of school teachers having done so .....so probs just an example.
I don't think Karen was ever a school teacher.
How was BR and KR enabling AR? The car may have been given to AR so he had transport to get to wherever he was attending rehab for his drug addiction. The $$$ were given to pay for rehab. (?) several times. I have nothing bad to say about BR and KR, who sound like they did everything in their power to help AR over the years. I believe CR when he states AR used and abused them. I do not feel sorry for AR, obviously, BR and KR had, had enough of his scheming ways (I believe him to be very cunning), most, if not all, drug addicts will lie through their teeth to get what they want. They destroy everything in their path including their own family members. Well that's my opinion. I did type a novel 2 hours ago but I lost it before I could send :gaah: Am enjoying reading everyone's input and although I disagree with several, I respect everyone's opinion.![]()
How was BR and KR enabling AR? The car may have been given to AR so he had transport to get to wherever he was attending rehab for his drug addiction. The $$$ were given to pay for rehab. (?) several times. I have nothing bad to say about BR and KR, who sound like they did everything in their power to help AR over the years. I believe CR when he states AR used and abused them. I do not feel sorry for AR, obviously, BR and KR had, had enough of his scheming ways (I believe him to be very cunning), most, if not all, drug addicts will lie through their teeth to get what they want. They destroy everything in their path including their own family members. Well that's my opinion. I did type a novel 2 hours ago but I lost it before I could send :gaah: Am enjoying reading everyone's input and although I disagree with several, I respect everyone's opinion.![]()
CR did say they gave him cars and he just wrecked them. So I was thinking why keep giving.
imo
CR did say they gave him cars and he just wrecked them. So I was thinking why keep giving.
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Is that why AR was given so many chances? Because he is the father of their grandchildren?Good thought, possum. There would be a definite need to keep those youngsters out of this ugly picture.
Is that why Sarah said she was an only child?
Embarrassment about Ant. Protection for his younger children.
Is that why AR was given so many chances? Because he is the father of their grandchildren?
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Hey soso, even CR seems a bit sus.
IMHO.
I'm totalled about this mob.