I think its important to understand the 'why' and have some empathy. He is not the same as a guy who picks up a kid and rapes them in the toilet while breaking their legs and choking them while the brother and uncle are right outside. This happened to a little girl in Perth and a similar incident in Sydney. He is different, he took the kid which was wrong but it seems like he didn't have any intention to hurt her. Since at the moment with the current information it seems that he doesn't hurt kids and hasn't hurt kids...Perhaps if he gets the right help in prison or mental health ward, he could one day be a normal member of society with his own family and his own kids, instead of a fake family on facebook. The punishment should definitely fit the crime and he should not be punished the same as a pedo if he really isn't one. Everything is not as black and white as it seems and I hope this guy receives a lot of help in prison and is able to improve his mental health. Maybe I am just too soft!
Not soft, compassionate, which isn’t a bad thing. It’s not unreasonable to speculate about the ‘how comes’. IMO this guy hasn’t had the best upbringing and we know early experiences have long reaching impact on how someone functions in adulthood. I can empathise with that, I see it a lot in my job where parents can’t parent effectively because they’ve never experienced loving, nurturing care themselves; However, the accused is an adult who functioned independently day to day, he actively
chose to take advantage of an innocent child’s vulnerability. And he succeeded in hiding her away for almost 3 weeks because he had the power and control over her. That’s calculated and manipulative and suggests he was thinking with a rational, adult mind. Who knows what he could have gone on to do if he wasn’t apprehended. Going from looking to steal some bits on a campsite to randomly snatching a child is a huge escalation in itself.
The interplay between mental health and criminal behaviour is very complex and I myself admit to finding it fascinating to analyse. Being
overly sympathetic perpetuates the stigma associated with mental health and mental illness though, and that’s a slippery slope because the reality is, people with mental illness are far more likely to be victims.
We’re essentially saying the victim was abducted because the alleged perpetrator had poor upbringing so fantasised about caring for a child or having a real life doll. But the victim was just sleeping, next to her actual parents on what should have been a fun break. The responsibility and accountability has to stop with the perpetrator. The victim and the risk to potential victims are the primary concern here.
I do think family and parenting support is inadequate and more has to be done by governments to break cycles of intergenerational trauma. Surely the countless stories about predators we see across the world day in, day out is enough evidence for that? Prevention is better than cure IMO.