Originally Posted by IzzyBlanche
It makes me absolutely crazy angry when anyone makes a comment along the lines of, "Why would he need to drug and rape anyone? There were/are plenty of women willing to have sex with him." GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR I don't type in all caps very often, but when I do: EDUCATE YOURSELF. RAPE ISN'T ABOUT SEX. "RAPE IS AN ACT OF VIOLENCE IN WHICH SEX IS THE WEAPON". --Linda Fairstein
Regarding ' "Why would he need to drug and rape anyone? There were/are plenty of women willing to have sex with him." '
IIRC, to a man who has psychological problems that present as sexual festishes or paraphilias, a "willing" woman may be the opposite of what he wants. Particularly if he has somnophilia. Objectifying a human being is much easier if that person cannot speak, or plead, or scream. It seems to me that holding all the power in such a situation (with no need to even superficially contend with the needs of a woman, no need to pretend emotional attachment to her, no need to hide his enjoyment of debasing and humiliating her) seems essential to reinforcing his self-image of being the one who is in complete control. He is everything, she is nothing. IIRC, her consent, even if she originally might have agreed to becoming a sexual partner of such a man, cannot be given once a drug has been administered. Her consent might, in fact, be the last thing he wants to hear in order for him to achieve satisfaction.
It has been suggested that BC has a somnophilic disorder, also referred to as the Sleeping Beauty Syndrome. (
http://www.livescience.com/51562-wha...mnophilia.html) The syndrome could indicate he suffers from OCD or some other disorder. And, I think, the answer to the question of "why" lies within that syndrome. Why the need to have his power validated in such a cruel, criminal manner? Maybe a psychiatrist could explain the lack of empathy, sympathy, and human decency in a man whose career had rewarded him so richly. (Perhaps because he knows that, academically, he is a fraud. Perhaps because he knows far better actors are coming up fast, and he needs his ego reinforced. Perhaps this way she cannot do or say anything that is "off script", anything that might throw him off the pattern he needs to complete.) At any rate, a woman who has been drugged and has become incapacitated, unable to say yes, unable to run away, is not capable, in the eyes of the law, of consenting to being sexually manipulated by anyone. The man who drugged her and knows she is incapacitated, and has not consented to interacting with him in such an intimate way, is, IMO, a rapist.
Further information can be easily accessed on the internet, but here are a few links to related articles.
http://nypost.com/2015/07/09/cosby-m...cusers-lawyer/
http://www.hngn.com/articles/109854/...l-disorder.htm
http://nytlive.nytimes.com/womenint...l-cosby-want-to-have-sex-with-comatose-women/