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I think you have put your finger on what is so disturbing about this case. There are just too many instances of incredibly cold behaviour beginning way before May 3 2007.
I remember reading that the McCanns alone decided to breakfast in their room because they found the walk to the restaurant with the twins and Madeleine to much to manage. Now as a past parent of little kids, I know that mum and dad can easily contain three, if they work as a team.
Apparently the McCanns couldn't.
Was this because it was just tiresome and annoying, or was it because Madeleine simply would not behave? Common sense would dictate carrying a twin each and Madeleine strolling hand in hand between both parents...why did this arrangement not work for the McCanns? Was Madeleine simply too naughty?
If she was very naughty, or difficult, which Kate and the sleeping charts suggest, or excessively shy as they creche workers report, it could indicate some sort of behavioural issue. Couple that with the potential implications of her coloboma and the thought starts to creep in...was Madeleine somehow "surplus to requirements"? I find it unusual that in most photos of Madeleine she was not making eye contact with the camera. There also appears no pure joy or excitement...I have a million photos of my childrens eyes shining at me like beacons because I have caught them in some gleeful mischief or other. I see none of that in Madeleine's photos. She appears dull in almost every image I've seen of her. Am I alone in this?
Her parents had a lovely little pigeon pair, was it only then they realised that their older daughter was somehow flawed?
Could a driven egotist such as Gerry somehow convince Kate that she was imperfect, and as such, no longer needed in their family dynamic?
I see the (now famous) black and white portrait of the happy, posed McCanns in their casual jeans and white shirts, and cannot help but see it as a perfect little family of four, with Madeleine trailing at the periphery like an afterthought.
A more natural, loving pose would be parent at each side, children in the middle. Or father at the back or side, then mum, then the kids together. If you have ever sat for a portait with your children you will know it is natural instinct to grab them and pose with your arms around them (whether they like it or not
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Most of the informal photos I have of my children are either of them doing something together, them doing something with their father, or them doing something with me. The formal ones are me and the ex with a child each on our knee...if we'd have had three, the third would have been holding a sibling, not sat off to the side like a red headed stepchild.
I also cannot recall a single photo of Madeleine with Kate apart from the portrait...correct me if I'm wrong.
Another oddity for such an allegedly cherished child.
The above is my OPINION ONLY therefore requires neither "proof" nor "evidence".
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