I never said Catholic Church would not allow it, I said my husband's family as many other Catholics consider it a sin. Just because the church allows it that does not mean they approve of it. Until recently it had to be "special circumstances" just like JFK.
The Church no longer forbids the practice of cremation, but Doesn't Allow The Scattering of Cremated Remains. You can't store Grandma on the mantel or scatter your father's ashes across the 13th green of his favorite golf course," advises Father Peter Polando, canon lawyer and pastor of St. Matthias Parish in Youngstown, Ohio. "The Church has strong feelings about the fact that this body has been a temple of the Holy Spirit and requires a proper burial as a result."
Miss Turbo - I knew exactly what you were saying and I was hoping to be supportive of what you were saying by giving an example of when a high profile Catholic did it on approval of the Church - like everyone else probably. (sigh)