The only way I see Caylee being home for her birthday is if her body is found and she's able to be returned to her family for burial. I'm sorry but it's the only thing that makes sense in this crazy case. Caylee will not be turning 3, she died more than likely at the hands of her mother when she was 2. People can shake their heads and say her mother couldn't have killed her, but people tend to put their own feelings and emotions into this and just can not grasp the fact that a mother can do something so evil because they themselves could not do it. There are people out there that do evil things every day and imo Cayse is no different. She will do whatever she can to protect herself. She is not interested in protecting her family or friends. These are the people she has used, lied to and stolen from for years.
Being locked up in jail, her world is now very small, she will continue her lies to manipulate whoever she can as long as she can, even if it keeps people dancing to her tune for 1 more day. When Kaylee's birthday has come and gone with no little girl running up to open her presents and eat her birthday cake, Casey will begin her next spin (if body has not been found) Kaylee will be home by Christmas.... by her next birthday... on and on it will go.
People who care about something turn everything upside down when it is lost, if you have a missing pet you put up posters, you make phone calls, you ask for help. Heck, if my father couldn't find his checkbook he got us kids helping to look for it!
VB