Cindy's New Theory??!!

[LTUlegal]

I just have to say that even though I've seen these reports about dna & composition, I'm in denial and hoping that Caylee will somehow be found alive, and I'm not even Caylee's grandmother. It's simply incomprehensible to imagine that my own child would take the life of my grandbaby, a grandbaby so close to me that she was like my own child. It's too much and too "out there" for me to comprehend. I submit that although Cindy's behavior has seemed too far-fetched to be normal, and her lashing out has seemed crazy, I seriously think that the denial is what is keeping her from breaking down into a ball of mush. I believe it's her self-preservation.
I certainly don't begin to understand or agree to all of her behavior, but I do want to throw that out there. I'd NEVER want to be in her shoes.

 

[LTUlegal]

More information on stages of grief since it's clear some of you don't seem to have a clue what she is going through.

http://www.memorialhospital.org/library/general/stress-THE-3.html

Five Stages Of Grief

1. Denial and Isolation.
At first, we tend to deny the loss has taken place, and may withdraw from our usual social contacts. This stage may last a few moments, or longer.
2. Anger.
The grieving person may then be furious at the person who inflicted the hurt (even if she's dead), or at the world, for letting it happen. He may be angry with himself for letting the event take place, even if, realistically, nothing could have stopped it.
3. Bargaining.
Now the grieving person may make bargains with God, asking, "If I do this, will you take away the loss?"
4. Depression.
The person feels numb, although anger and sadness may remain underneath.
5. Acceptance.
This is when the anger, sadness and mourning have tapered off. The person simply accepts the reality of the loss.

Thanks for saying what I was trying to!

 

[miimaa]

I hope none of you ever lose a grand baby and also face losing your daughter at the same time while having the whole world watching you and criticizing every word that comes out of your mouth while you are grieving.

I can't imagine how hard that has to be for them. This thread disgusts me.

Cindy is not being criticized for every word that comes out of her mouth IMO. She is being criticized for constantly changing her story (dead body smell, pizza, squirrel, some other dead body) and making excuses for Casey's outlandish lies. If she talked/texted Casey every day for the month she was gone why did she need Amy in order to track Casey down? It is apparent Cindy did not know where Casey was and was not able to get ahold of her. In her 911 call she stated her daughter had been missing for a month and she'd just found her but had not found her granddaughter yet.

She makes excuse after excuse for Casey's lies. "Mother of the year", she's "innocent", etc. Come on... in the face of all these lies how can she go on like this? It is known that Casey was not working but out partying. Why isn't it obvious to Cindy and George that Casey is lying? No job, no pleading for the return of her little girl, lie after lie after lie to her parents and her friends. That is what people are disgusted with.

 

[yanknrebel]

Right.... not another framing ala Peterson family. Why would someone frame Casey? Who's body could it have been? Where is Caylee?

Really if someone were out to frame Casey she sure is making it easy for them with all of her lies - just like Scott Peterson made it so easy for someone to frame him. There is just no way.

I cannot believe the George and Cindy have not confronted Casey and demand to know exactly what happened. Even if they buy her story of the nanny why don't they want to know why she lied about having a job, why she was stealing money, why she was out partying and bonking several men while Caylee is missing, why she talked/texted her mom every day and never let on anything was wrong? Heck... if her dad was former LE woudn't that be the FIRST place she'd go for help if the nanny story were true?

Ok here is a far fetched theory for everyone. First off does anyone know if Casey ws out drinking the night(s) Caylee went missing? Probably a safe bet she was. Did anyone ELSE see in the second half of the 400 pages written in a facebook entry recorded the nights when Caylee went missing, where Casey wrote to a friend "I almost killed someone last night". Did I really see that? DId anyone else see that entry? So suppose she was drinking/drunk and someone she was with DID kill someone that night (ie fight, brawl , drug deal etc) and so she and the perp had to dispose of the body. They loaded body into Casey's car and decided to hide Caylee somewhere so that she ould be safe, fearing retaliation for what had happened. She and this friend/perp disposed of body, out of trunk, and after she dropped off this friend back at his house, she then being slightly hung over, ran out of gas, and forgot purse. now of course this theory does not explain the decomp in backyard, but does explain her laughing at investigators, her talking about almost killing someone and also her saying Caylee is well. I know this is just wishful thinking on my part. I just find it hard, with all the monsters out there and all the cases of infanticide that this world has seen, how ANY mother could laugh or show absolutely no emotion when told her daughter is dead and you killed her. She has to be going for the insane verdict or mental defect ruse. Again so much for her wanting her FREEDOM . Oh well she is just way too cocky to think she will ever get charged with this murder, and thinks she will walk free or only serve a short time in jail. I pray this does not happen.

 

[icherish]

Great info, bunniecakes- thanks for posting. : )

 

[yanknrebel]

How do we know they haven't confronted her in the privacy of their own home? I'm sure they have, but unfortunatley the home isn't bugged so we will never know what those conversations entail.

Well if we are to beleive LP then he said that Casey has not spoken ONE word to him, her mother, her father or to Lee. Not one single word while in that house. I would probably get arrested if she were my daughter because I would come unglued, grab her by the shoulders and throttle her until she told me what happened and where that baby is/was. If her family can't et her to speak then no one will.

 

[miimaa]

Ok here is a far fetched theory for everyone. First off does anyone know if Casey ws out drinking the night(s) Caylee went missing? Probably a safe bet she was. Did anyone ELSE see in the second half of the 400 pages written in a facebook entry recorded the nights when Caylee went missing, where Casey wrote to a friend "I almost killed someone last night". Did I really see that? DId anyone else see that entry? So suppose she was drinking/drunk and someone she was with DID kill someone that night (ie fight, brawl , drug deal etc) and so she and the perp had to dispose of the body. They loaded body into Casey's car and decided to hide Caylee somewhere so that she ould be safe, fearing retaliation for what had happened. She and this friend/perp disposed of body, out of trunk, and after she dropped off this friend back at his house, she then being slightly hung over, ran out of gas, and forgot purse. now of course this theory does not explain the decomp in backyard, but does explain her laughing at investigators, her talking about almost killing someone and also her saying Caylee is well. I know this is just wishful thinking on my part. I just find it hard, with all the monsters out there and all the cases of infanticide that this world has seen, how ANY mother could laugh or show absolutely no emotion when told her daughter is dead and you killed her. She has to be going for the insane verdict or mental defect ruse. Again so much for her wanting her FREEDOM . Oh well she is just way too cocky to think she will ever get charged with this murder, and thinks she will walk free or only serve a short time in jail. I pray this does not happen.

If this were the case why is Casey still keeping Caylee hidden? Why did she lie about having a job for so long? Why did she lie to TonE and tell him Caylee was with her grandparents? Why did she tell other people Caylee was with a nanny? Why all the LIES? Makes no sense at all unless Casey is lying to hide something and protect herself.

 

[DazzlinDebSD]

http://www.wftv.com/video/17334271/index.html

I didn't sift throught the whole thread to see if anyone posted this.

 

[miimaa]

Stages of grief:
* Denial
* Anger
* Bargaining
* Depression
* Acceptance


There are many stages of grief and Cindy is displaying the first two, you haven't given her enough time to get depressed for crying out loud. While she is displaying her grief which she is entitled to, there are some mean individuals judging her every word and calling her horrible names while she is coming to terms with the fact she is probably never going to see her grand baby again and her daughter is probably going to end up with a murder charge of some sorts.

disgusting. I simply never thought people could sink this low, but wow. Everyday someone amazes me.

My son has been in a lot of trouble. Stole a car and spent time in prison. I did not make excuses for him. He lied to me about it. Of course he did. He wanted someone on his side. The facts though told me something else entirely. I am sure that Cindy is in shock. She has learned some very disturbing things about her daughter over the past month. The pictures of Casey out partying do not lie. The fact that Casey did not have a job is not a lie. The fact that Casey took money from people is not a lie.

I'm sure most of us here know what grief looks like. My friends had their daughter murdered last year. A life-long friend lost her son in a car accident. I have seen sudden and shocking loss and grief. This situation is different. It is a mystery. Who would you believe at this point? Your daughter who has been caught in many lies?

 

[CCme]

SNIP
As many problems we face in life, there is always someone out there (like Cindy) who has problems to face that we can't even imagine.

So when you get disgusted with her (like I do), take a deep breath and send her a prayer for strength.
It will help her and you at the same time.

~drumstick

IMO.

:clap:Totally agree. As well as hugs to GA and Lee.

 

[Emma Peel]

More information on stages of grief since it's clear some of you don't seem to have a clue what she is going through.


Here, here bunnycakes! :clap::clap::clap::clap:

JHMO:
People's minds work differently. People greive differently. People who are exhausted can't think clearly, sometimes can't contain their pain and explode. Criticising the behavior of people who are grieving is silly, and, IMO, patently unkind, completely unnecessarry.

Wow. I am so with you, bunnycakes.

Sometimes, Cindy takes my breath away. The pounding in the no-tresspassing signs exercise we watched yesterday - yesterday made tears stream down my face. Don't people realize what we witnessed there?

The physical manifestation of Cindy's exhausted, clouded, tortured mind and heart: "Keep off my property, keep off my heart, keep off my brain, respect my family while we deal with this devastating pain."

By the way, the guy in the Hawaiian shirt helping Cindy draw the lines of defense around her grief ... he's another of my new heros. What a sweetheart to go out and help that poor woman.

Nice to know I'm not alone.

 

[PeteyGirl]

You mean people don't put random decomposing bodies in trunks at tow yards all the time?? :waitasec:

Really this woman has lost her mind some days I feel bad for her and others well, my feelings are less than nice. The funny thing is she doesnt seem to realize how rediculous that theory sounds, wonder where Casey gets it from.....

Cindy shows no respect for Caylee and what has happened to her, by her selfish refusal to look at the facts. She selfishly chooses her own need to remain in LaLa Land (where it is less painful for HER), no differently than her daughter.

I am one that feels really bad for the GPs AS WELL AS wanting to bang their heads together in hopes of waking them up. Hell what do they have to lose now? The greatest is lost already. Apparently they'll take shreds of insane fantasy over nothing. They choose their own selfish needs over giving their only granddaughter a decent burial much less the respect of telling her goodbye . . .

There comes a time when "understanding" of how their pain has made them vulnerable and a little psycho has gone too far. These folks take it wayyyyy too far beyond decency.

ETA: Casey is not the only one in that family that sees life as all about HER.

 

[Lanie]

Sharon Rocha has walked in her shoes and handled EVERYTHING differently.

IMO I don't think you are correct. Jackie Peterson is the one who has walked in Cindy's shoes.
Lanie

 

[icherish]

Regardless of what people think of Cindy... no one can dispute the fact that nothing Cindy has said or done has legitimately disputed any fact or altered the investigation of this case insofar as LE is concerned.

Casey is the true liar, obstructionist, and probable killer of Caylee. If LE thought Cindy had any part in any of that, they'd be all over her in a New York minute.
JMO

 

[zadari]

More information on stages of grief since it's clear some of you don't seem to have a clue what she is going through.


Here, here bunnycakes! :clap::clap::clap::clap:

JHMO:
People's minds work differently. People greive differently. People who are exhausted can't think clearly, sometimes can't contain their pain and explode. Criticising the behavior of people who are grieving is silly, and, IMO, patently unkind, completely unnecessarry.

Wow. I am so with you, bunnycakes.

Sometimes, Cindy takes my breath away. The pounding in the no-tresspassing signs exercise we watched yesterday - yesterday made tears stream down my face. Don't people realize what we witnessed there?

The physical manifestation of Cindy's exhausted, clouded, tortured mind and heart: "Keep off my property, keep off my heart, keep off my brain, respect my family while we deal with this devastating pain."

By the way, the guy in the Hawaiian shirt helping Cindy draw the lines of defense around her grief ... he's another of my new heros. What a sweetheart to go out and help that poor woman.

Nice to know I'm not alone.

i agree too .. casey i dont feel sorry for but cindy i do ..i can see the pain in her face whenever she is on tv .. i hope to god im never in her shoes .. because im not even gonna speculate on what id do cuz i really dont know .. the reporters are horrible for camping outside thier house daily .. im sorry but that is just horrid .. there is a time and place these people are getting no privacy at all .. cindy probably wants to cry and scream i dont know what happened anymore than anyone else but she loves her daughter and wont do it ..

 

[Lanie]

Cindy shows no respect for Caylee and what has happened to her, by her selfish refusal to look at the facts. She selfishly chooses her own need to remain in LaLa Land (where it is less painful for HER), no differently than her daughter.

True denial is not a choice, it just is. You are not in true denial if you are telling yourself, "hey, I don't want to believe this, so I won't." Even doing that little bit has opened up the possibility it might be true.

Lanie

 

[Cagney]

Could Cindy have been looking for a fight? Why else would she have gone out with those signs? She wanted to throw a few.

snipped....


I could not agree more.
Cindy is a DRAMA MAMA! There is nothing more to it. So anytime there is a lull in excitment she must go drum some up. Today it was the trespassing signs....we shall see what tomorrow brings.....

 

[miimaa]

i agree too .. casey i dont feel sorry for but cindy i do ..i can see the pain in her face whenever she is on tv .. i hope to god im never in her shoes .. because im not even gonna speculate on what id do cuz i really dont know .. the reporters are horrible for camping outside thier house daily .. im sorry but that is just horrid .. there is a time and place these people are getting no privacy at all .. cindy probably wants to cry and scream i dont know what happened anymore than anyone else but she loves her daughter and wont do it ..

PRIVACY?? They should want Caylee's face front and center every day. They wouldn't want this forgotten.

Another take on their behavior...

I first was struck by the ungrateful attitude of Cindy Anthony when she first appeared on Greta Van Susteren’s cable news show On the Record. I watched the web cast and just about the first thing out of Cindy Anthony’s mouth was her request to Greta to not has her ’stupid questions’. Later, when pressed with a hard question, had Cindy point-blank asked Casey where Caylee is; I was shocked at the response given. She told Greta that she was tired and was about ready to pass out. If Greta wanted her to pass out to increase the ratings then she would oblige her. Greta was gracious with her reply and suggested the interview end, perhaps to continue tomorrow evening. Cindy told her she would be busy the next day. I really do believe Greta was less than amused.

I did a check on the Google search engine Sunday afternoon of the name “Caylee Anthony” to see how many hits would come up. It was a combined total of 46 pages of news and blogs. The breakdown between news and blogs was 12 pages of news and 34 pages of blogs. So not only is Caylee receiving attention in the main stream media; her name is all over the internet. It is claimed that the issue of People Magazine with Caylee’s picture will reach an estimated 42 million readers.

A few things have prompted me to not write about Caylee’s disappearance over the past few weeks. One reason was I figured she was getting plenty of coverage and I do try to write about the missing children not getting coverage or very little coverage. The other reason is Cindy Anthony’s attitude with the media. Her flip replies when they ask serious questions. When asked by one reporter about the bruises spoken of during the bond hearing; her reply was to point out a bruise on her leg and retort: ‘I have a bruise on my leg; does that mean I am abused?’

What prompted me to finally write this entry was the comment I read on Orlando television station website Local6 made by George Anthony regarding the People Magazine article.

“Don’t look at the article that is in People magazine and formulate, ‘Oh my God, this and that and whatever,’” George Anthony said. “The article was not put together how we were told it was going to be put together. Again, we have gotten blindsided. My family got blindsided.”2

Cindy Antony continually tells reporters that the story is not about them, not about their daughter, it is about finding Caylee. Now, George Anthony comes out and criticizes the biggest break to get Caylee’s face out there. Doctor and dentist offices, and beauty salons all have waiting areas where they have People Magazine. All the Anthony’s can think about is how bad this article made their daughter look. Trust me, their daughter looked bad to the public long before the People Magazine hit the newsstands. The consensus is Casey either gave that baby away to someone to get back at her mother, sold her, or as it is looking more apparent, she killed her daughter.

There are so many children missing in this country, parents would sell their souls to get just 1/10th of the coverage Caylee has received and all the Anthony’s can do is complain about the type of coverage received and how it does not meet their standards. Also, apparently Cindy Anthony will go to any length to get police to come to her home - even by not telling the truth.

I understand people are not shown in their best light when experiencing high stress, but maybe someone else should be the spokesperson for this family.

http://missingandmurderedchildren.facesofthemissing.org/

 

[LI_Mom]

So somebody breaks INTO a tow yard & looking for a place to hide a dead body...... and just happens to pick Casey's car.

I bet this person is also responsible for putting that disgusting pizza in there..... just to throw LE off the trail & make the whole world think poor Casey is a big slob for leaving old pizza in her trunk.


Poor Casey, she sure IS the most unlucky person in the whole world. I can't wait until we finally hear that truth Cindy keeps promising we'll hear & see what a hero she really is.


Anyway.... why on earth is Cindy STILL making these absurd type of comments to the media? She just won't be happy until she helps Casey walk right onto death row?

 

[Short_Stuff]

I don't mean this to sound ugly, but Cindy Anthony needs mental help. I wonder are any of the family members seeing a doctor or therpist? They really need to.