Maybe one side or the other wanted a pre-nup. I don't know. I don't think I have ever known a couple to have a relationship like theirs.I also question the legitimacy of the engagement. What were they waiting for?
Another theory I have is that she had moved on but PF providing day care was convenient, reliable and she trusted him because he was the child's father. Why mess up something simple that works? Then perhaps PF realized that the two of them getting married one day was no longer in the cards and he confronted her about it.Here is one possible scenario, just thinking outloud here...
What if they spoke that morning, and mutually agreed to follow through with the break up they had already discussed the night before...
And maybe they made a simple mutual plan----KB agreed that the baby could attend a family Thanksgiving afternoon with PF and his family---but then he would drop her back off at KB's home late afternoon ...?
And they did it that way, but something bad happened when he went to see her late afternoon....
Also, who supplied the 25k reward money?I agree with this. Even if there were friends who were asked not to share certain details, wouldn't they still appear in social media doing things like staging fundraisers to help her family,... A woman missing in Michigan had colleagues who were briefed to abstain from sharing details about the case on social media but that didn't stop them from posting photos and encouraging words. I also question the legitimacy of the engagement. What were they waiting for?
You know what surprises me? We don't have any biography of KB. Except for her growing up in Moses Lake and getting a diploma in a community college in Big Bend. But what happened after that, where she lived, what jobs she had, when she moved to CO? I understand she moved in the context of relationship, but even this is unclear.
I understand that her parents may even be unaware of the details of her life in CO, but can one get a normal, regular life story before CO? I think it might be very helpful.
How close are they to Colorado Springs?
I'd be shaking in my boots if I had killed anyone and was in the same state as
Joe Kenda!
I see that they aren't too far.
Probably not the same jurisdiction and I'm sure Kenda is retired now, but still.
All of Kenda's quotes have been running through my mind in this case!
Well, well, well...
Moo
Yes it is hard to put a puzzle together when you don't have all the pieces.At the end of the day, after all that has been said and done, I don't think we know much about anything going on.
I agree. Being a new mother can be incredibly isolating. As a working mother, I know I am exhausted and sleep deprived and can barely keep my eyes open at night to watch a tv show let alone have a social life. I would be highly surprised if she had time to date either.She just moved to the area in 2016 without knowing anyone except PF, had a baby, commuted 70 miles to work, was in a relationship, the baby's family provided childcare. As an instructor, her time at work was probably spent with students rather than c0-workers.
When in the world would she have had time to form a group of friends?
I see plenty of things suspicious in this case, but lack of friends in town speaking to the press about Kelsey is not one of them.
jmo
Edited to add: Also, I wouldn't expect anyone to miss her except her work people....and that was handled with a text. I would expect PF to miss her!
With a smile ... I only claim the obvious
It is well known that a 3rd party love interest is almost always present in over-heated domestic situations that spark deadly.
Many on Holidays
For each media sensationalized domestic that did not involve a 3rd party ... we all can count 10 that did.
Scott Peterson, OJ and the recent Chris Watts ... are all the same ... 3rd party love interest
It is hard to find a domestic murder that does not involve a 3rd party love interest (or alcohol or abuse)
It is just the math of it
As a mom of 2 adult women , it didn't happen.I would never have handed over my child, and then took off. Nope, I'm not buying it either.What is driving me crazy is if KB left (if, if, if) and IF she broke up with her boyfriend (fiance) WHY? would she give him her child and leave for almost a month without a word?
As a mom, especially one who is about to have another baby, I would never do this...never. Maybe she did? But it really sounds like a story a man would make up. Sorry, I know a lot of good fathers who wouldn't make up a story like this, but it seems like a logical cover-up and yet, in reality, I don't know many women who would break up with someone and then hand them their child. Especially a mom who makes their kiddo cinnamon rolls that morning.
I really hope she is alive and is reunited with her daughter and her family. As for her fiance or whatever, I just haven't seen even one ounce of love...nothing. It's sad.
As a mom of 2 adult women , it didn't happen.I would never have handed over my child, and then took off. Nope, I'm not buying it either.
I don’t want to dispute his parenting but based on his behavior and some of the recent visitors to our forum, I think there’s a desire to portray him as the parent who does the “work” caring for their daughter while implying KB does not, or that it would be easy for her to take off without her child. Maybe I’m just being sensitive, but it’s how I see it. I don’t like it as it feels a bit like a soft way to victim bash. Jmo.