Plenty of religious people abuse or even kill their partners. Or sexually act out with children. Or sexually harass people.
A lot of times, abusers hide behind masks of Good Behavior, which is why the profile for some criminals (predators in particular) include "blends into society, is perceived as upright."
It can be a disguise. I think the jury is out on this one.
A pastor at a church about 20 miles from me is currently in jail on domestic violence and related charges. He came close to killing his spouse, and this isn't the first time (she took him back after the first couple of times). It's a much larger story of his violence and acting out - but both his wife and his congregation forgave him. This time, he has harmed one of his daughters and church is suspended by CoVid (which may be a factor in his behavior...) I don't think he's getting out soon on this one (wife refused to testify in the first case).
I can speculate either way. But I don't think praying and not cussing is any disqualification to domestic violence.
Agreed:
A man described as a devout Christian who volunteered at a local church was charged this week with killing his wife and two young daughters after their bodies were found in a home in western Canada.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.fo...d-with-killing-wife-and-daughters-7-and-8.amp
Devout Christian was convicted of persuading his wife to kill herself so he could get her insurance money:
Australian jailed for aiding wife's suicide
Super religious Chris Coleman (the worst word his mother heard him use was “piss”) whose life revolved around religion. Murdered his whole family so he could be free to have a secret affair:
A Family Erased: The Chris Coleman Story
Devoutly Lutheran John List also killer his whole family:
John List - Wikipedia
The BTK serial killer was elected president of his church council. He worked at his church.
Dennis Rader - Wikipedia
I can provide link after link.
It is untrue that religiosity protects someone from violence or criminal behavior. Sociopaths or psychopaths can be born or created with any background. Religion sometimes acts as a front for criminals who want to prey on vulnerable people. Think of all the pastors and priests who have molested children or young women:
Plante casually claims that religious people are "better citizens" and "behave better." And without citing any sources, he tells us: "Research has consistently found that religious people are less likely to engage in criminal behavior, marital
infidelity,
alcoholism, unprotected sexual activity. . ."
Fortunately for atheists, agnostics, and secular humanists, there is no factual basis for Plante's claim that "research has consistently found" secular individuals to be more prone to such antisocial behavior. Consider, for example, a March 2009 academic article in Sociology Compass that extensively researched the subjects raised by Plante. The article, by Phil Zuckerman of Pitzer College, is entitled
"Atheism, Secularity, and Well-Being: How the Findings of Social Science Counter Negative Stereotypes and Assumptions" and, unlike Plante's article, it cites detailed studies of the areas in question.
Zuckerman analyzed a wide array of data comparing religious nations to less religious nations and also, interestingly, religious states within the United States (i.e. "Bible-belt" states) to less religious states. While I encourage readers to examine the article directly through the link above, here are just a few of the highlights:
Criminal Behavior:
Citing four different studies, Zuckerman states: "Murder rates are actually lower in more secular nations and higher in more religious nations where belief in God is widespread." He also states: "Of the top 50 safest cities in the world, nearly all are in relatively non-religious countries."
Within the United States, we see the same pattern. Citing census data, he writes: "And within America, the states with the highest murder rates tend to be the highly religious, such as Louisiana and Alabama, but the states with the lowest murder rates tend to be the among the least religious in the country, such as Vermont and Oregon."
And these findings are not limited to murder rates, as rates of all violent
crime tend to be higher in "religious" states. Zuckerman also points out that atheists are very much under-represented in the American prison population (only 0.2%).
Marriage and Family:
Zuckerman cites a 1999 Barna study that finds that atheists and agnostics actually have lower
divorce rates than religious Americans.
He also cites another study, in Canada, that found conservative Christian women experienced higher rates of
domestic violence than non-affiliated women.
Misinformation and Facts about Secularism and Religion
More at link.