tmar
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Agree so much. All that follows is moo.
In domestic violence cases, the abuse does not suddenly appear out of nowhere with a blow to the head. Control is abuse, it wears down the will and dignity of the victim. So very cruel. That Suzanne is described as childlike breaks my heart. I feel that was a factor in the marriage from the start. It would make her attractive to an abuser. Along with an inheritance, of course. I'm not saying that BM was concious of this. He appears to have a self awareness deficit as large as his inflated ego.
I feel the move to Colorado was proposed not only because of work stressors, but to isolate her more completely from her support group, in order to gain more perfect control of her assets. She wouldn't feel comfortable confiding in new friends, as she had with her old friends.
I feel that he was losing control at work, and at home as well, in Indiana. I feel that he had become physically abusive and her friend knew about it. All the more reason why he felt he needed a fresh start. Suzanne tried to convince herself that things would get better if he was away from the work stressors (of his own making), yet she had reservations about the move.
The abuser is so manipulative after an explosion, promising the moon, it will never happen again, to the point that the victim will actually feel pity for the abuser.
One thing's for sure. If Suzanne's friend knows about any abuse, and was keeping her secret, she's talking now. Moo
Probably, not only SM's friends, family and daughters are now speaking.
How BM acted in the marriage?
We will soon be informed.
MOO.