Goldenseal
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If BM couldn't attend live there was nothing stopping him from "zooming" into the rally remotely or sending a statement to be read by his or Suzanne's family or even THANKING everyone for their support and caring about Suzanne after the rally. I've not seen a anything from him. Has he shown any gratitude at all for the event?
IMO, it's waaaaay too late for BM to start acting as if he wants to find SM. He distanced himself from her and her disappearance from the very beginning, except for an odd, jarring 26-second video that sounded like he was speaking to a kidnapper.
Just IMO -- to people like BM, other people are useful objects, gray entities who aren't really important in themselves, but who provide essential services to their betters, like BM. He doesn't have much emotional attachment, but is more interested in setting up HIS life so he only has to do what he feels like doing. Daily adulting is not anything he is interested in -- he arranges staff for that. Sex and money can be married into, and you'll rarely see a person like BM married to anyone who is poor and plain; also, someone who is seriously involved in a time-consuming, brainy occupation doesn't attract people like BM because much of that person's attention, time and energy will be directed toward a serious life's work and not to BM's comfort. It's also irritating when friends and acquaintances remark upon a spouse's intelligence and advanced skills -- such praise should be reserved for the head of the household, no matter what he is doing or not doing.
What I wrote sounds awful. But after reading about SP and PF, how can we not think this of BM? I'll never forget PF's comment about being surprised there was a search for KB: "People go missing every day!!%&!#@!!" It was as if she was a nonentity. Horrifying.