I'm not sure what shocked and grieving parents can do on campus! They probably found out their daughter went missing late Tuesday night or early Wednesday AM. There is a wedding on Sunday that has been planned for over a year. I would imagine the family is bouncing off the walls trying to make sure people don't fly in from out of town to attend the wedding. The entire event needs to be cancelled. LE and the FBI are searching for their daughter and I'm sure they have been in touch. The fiance went to the campus to help in the search...not sure what the parents could do right now that would be effective. Maybe the students who are on campus who know Annie are planning something, but that takes time. The campus was notified on Thursday, mid-morning. Why isn't Yale putting up more then $10,000? Why was everything so late in getting started. I put the blame on campus police and the university and not the family. mho