Your right everyone has their own opinions and in the beginning of this whole nightmare I would have gone off, but then I realize I represent my family, my sister-in-law Chrissy, and my niece Vanessa. I've seen all the comments on numerous pages how my niece Vanessa is deceased or how my sister-in-law was basically asking for this because she knew how he was. In reality people need to realize my sister-in-law Chrissy never asked for this, Chrissy wanted a family, she thought she found the one because of how he treated her when they first started dating. No one and I mean no one could have foreseen these tragic events. Everyone thinks we (the family) didn't try to talk to Chrissy, but in the end Chrissy only saw the good in people and not evil. She had a heart of gold and would do anything for anyone. If she only had a dollar to her name, she would give you her last dollar. That's how Chrissy was and she will always be that way in my heart and soul and I miss her every minute of the day. I miss my niece Vanessa every minute of the day. It's so hard not picking up my cell phone and calling her just to see how her and the baby are doing or if they want to come over for dinner. We have to sit around posting pictures of my niece Vanessa asking the public to keep an eye out for her or her items, we wait by our cell phones every minute waiting for a call from LE saying Vanessa has be located and she is safe. So please just be mindful on some of the questions you ask. I know it's your right, but if you have a personal question please feel free to message me in private. Thank you