Sometimes parents and their children argue. I do wonder if there was a bigger argument between father and son before AH left the restaurant both the first and second times. The neighbor said they were arguing in front of Dad's house earlier too. It was reported his father did grab AH by the collar, I believe at the restaurant, at one point. We don't know what was really going on there. The first time AH left and went to his mother's and it was reported "guzzled OIL" to which Mom suggested adding Parmesan Cheese. Weird details, huh. Then, for some reason, AH ended up back at Duffy's and, though it does seem like a weak excuse that the restaurant service was slow, AH left again.
He leaves appearing calm. There is no explanation why, as he was walking in the direction of his father's house, and seemingly out of the blue, he brutally beat and stabbed the couple to death in there garage, including stabbing their protective neighbor. AH was in a rage, unstoppable and acting like a savage animal, and no one knows why at this time.
WH being on Dr. Phil on September 7th will probably not provide any answers. I'll watch, but I do realize his attorney advised him of what to say. I anticipate a lot of "those promises to stay tuned to learn more info after the commercial breaks" and I'll learn nothing of truth. Can't blame others who feel it was too soon to go on national tv and that it seems like a legal leniency ploy for his son's future trial. If there was a bigger argument between them I'm sure WH won't share that tidbit.
Sorry funny, at first I thought I wonder if dad is still working. Then I thought I really dont think I would want to go back to dentist whose son is posting pictures of teeth, fangs, , and CHEWING on neighbors. Ill find another provider!
There is nothing funny about any of this, but I do have the ability to make myself laugh, aloud, at my thoughts half the time I hear them (not that way!)at the same time i think them.
It just goes so quick - my little head.
I do think they will have to move. Not even in a context of neighbors being cruel or something - but I do think it would be hard to meet for lunch --its always there-would you really be able to talk about how your just not satisfied with your maid, (in those settings this can be a large discussion! My step witch and older sister are in that scene -- boring!) while in the back of your mind how can you not have ..............so........many.......questions.............
At some real level, I dont even really know what I would expect dad to say, to help , understand. At some level it is not really understandable. I suppose at some level all we really want is to be able to attribute causeation of such an act, to try and put it in some place where it can be absorbed?
One angle - the sister - that envoroment - pressure to excel etc - my older sister wounds like his sister doing doing and doing and all well. The pressure to "perform" at something are intense in that setting.
I still think he flucked out last semester - I cant imagine someone doing what he was on YT and being in class the next day. I ponder if a letter from the university stating something about performance, being kicked out or whatever came that week.
It would explain the front yard fights, the shooting birds, the party in the back yard -all things as far as we know were not cusutmary for lack of a better word. Spiraling and acting out.
Drinking weed coke whatever, I can imagine a young adult doing while staying with a parent, but I cant imagine "doing" bath salts and coming home in the middle of a trip.
Then again at some level, I have pondered if dad provided steroids - it fits that socieconmic stuff , his son jock big football player etc etc etc. Dad proud etc etc. Fine he wants to bulk up so he can play football -- if that is the case would even give Austin more of a sense they are safe - RX provided, not online all that.
But then I cross the street (!) these are kids focused on body - they know there are dangers with steroids, if dad was getting them for him - can he be in trouble? i am just speculating and certainly we dont know at all if that was the case.
Again the hurrican better not flood out the lab!! I mean it !!