I do believe that this woman was used and deceived by GBC but nevertheless the pressure she was putting him under to tell Allison that SHE would be at the conference the next day led, in my opinion, to the events that led to Allison's murder. In my humble opinion TM has blood on her hands. I hope she feels great shame for the part she has played in ruining the childhoods of those innocent children. Sorry feeling very angry and emotional! The trial is a lot harder than I thought it would be
Imo, no need for you to apologise, Daisyinthedesert. Most of us have thought or expressed similar thoughts and emotions
Insecurity on her part, no doubt. Possession is nine tenths of the law and applies equally in matters of the heart, in the minds of some. Insecurity about his going home to his family each night. Insecurity about the true relationship between GBC and Allison. Jealousy, fear, insecurity. No doubt in time, TM will admit to herself that things between her and GBC were nowhere near as idyllic as she wanted to pretend. She played her only ace card, that of threat and petulance, demands for proof of his 'love'. Yes, she turned up the fire. And he, so accustomed to obeying, caved to the wrong woman instead of just manning up and telling her he was sticking with his wife and family
Far as I can see, the only thing TM offered was escape from the massive pressures he was under. He wanted to believe life after wife and family would be something out of a travel brochure. It wouldn't have been, of course. He would still have had to support his children in addition to finding a way to earn a living
And TM wanted to believe she and GBC could have the same travel brochure fantasy life if he would just walk away from wife and children as simply as closing a door. Immaturity, wishful thinking, unrealistic. I'm just glad those little girls didn't ever have her as a wicked stepmother. Because every time TM saw those children, it would have been yet another reminder that GBC had loved Allison and had made love to her to produce those children. In time, TM would probably have expected GBC to walk away from his children too