So in defense of Ross. you have to paint him as a negligent, deceitful father, who ignored his son while sexting, then lied to the cops to try and avoid detection, making up a story about kissing his son, in case they both died. Sounds like he deserves to spend time in prison even if what you say about him in his defense is true.
What RH deserves is the fair trial guaranteed to him by the U.S. Constitution. I didn't believe he received a fair trial. To believe that Harris didn't receive a fair trial isn't to defend him, but to defend his or anyone else's fundamental constitutional rights.
It's not "painting" Ross as anything to put together the pieces as I have. He hadn't had a full night's sleep in 4 days, and had only slept a few hours in the early morning of the 18th. He'd tried to complete his portion of a project, even though his project manager had gone ahead and done the work himself, and he'd also sent out a resume that early AM--indicating attempts at coping, not of existential murderous despair.
The State greatly exaggerated it's narrative about RH's sexting that day. RH wasn't it in fact preoccupied with sexting before he left for CFA, or when driving to CFA, or (with perhaps one brief exception) while he was at CFA, or during his drive from CFA to the Treehouse, or from what I can discern, even in the time he had before leaving for lunch.
Was RH negligent that morning? I believe he was, but not because he was sexting; he simply wasn't sexting in any relevant timeframe. I think he was negligent because the timeline & evidence suggest RH's mind was so completely elsewhere, away from Cooper, that it was in fact possible for him to forget Cooper was in the car.
Was it deceiptful of RH to lie to LE about that wanting to take Cooper to a special daddy-son breakfast (he'd lost track of time while texting and couldn't get Cooper to daycare on time)? Yep. And about commandeering Leanna's lines about her hot car deaths fears? Yep. And about being attuned to Cooper that AM that he'd given Cooper hugs and kisses and heard Cooper say "school"? Yep, etc., yep, and yep.
Does he deserve to spend time in prison for trying to save his own arse when speaking to LE? Nah, though ironically, the very things he said to try to save his own arse were instead trotted out by the State as "evidence" of intent.
As I've said, I'd have thought it just if RH was convicted on 2nd degree CC (but not felony murder), because I think both are true: it was an accident, but it was an accident that could only have happened because of a generalized negligence that AM.