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Agreed no reason to go in there for looking out purposes. But a completely different scenario is if after GM check, M independently wakes, goes to other bedroom, falls asleep there, before intruder enters apartment.
If I was a parent and my child was missing I would yank every curtain and sofa around and check behind and underneath everything ... even yank stuff out of closets to see if she was there.
How many of the Tapas 5 friends could have done the same while searching ??
It is extremely doubtful that those apartment pictures represent an undisturbed crime scene .
I bet even the first police on the scene checked everywhere in the apartment. Remember at that time nobody knew this was going to be an international kidnapping story. It was just a missing kid at first.
After the about 930 MO check there is further foot traffic for a departing intruder to slot around: JT walks from restaurant to 5D (to take over childcare), and then ROB walks from 5D to restaurant (to recommence meal).
IMO she could have woken, looked for parents in other bedroom, returned to own bed, and gone back to sleep. IMO there is a fair possibility she may have woken and done this during some of the previous four evening mealsBut this offers no explanation of why the kid’s bedroom door is more open on GM’s check than when he and KM left the apartment.
I do think this is important. Parents would be precise with how wide they leave the door open - just enough light so the kids aren’t freaked out if they wake up in complete darkness but dark enough for them to drop back to sleep if they wake up.
This anomaly was registered by GM. He probably thought MM woke up and opened it and then went back to bed, this is of course possible but in this scenario with my kids: they wake up, get completely out of bed, walk around the apartment, find no parents, they wouldn’t get back into bed and settle themselves, they would scream until they were attended to.
In my mind, the openness of the door is quite an important fact and it leads to an intruder in the apartment during both checks.
Yes same routeThey’re taking the same route from the restaurant to block 5 though right?
IMO she could have woken, looked for parents in other bedroom, returned to own bed, and gone back to sleep. IMO there is a fair possibility she may have woken and done this during some of the previous four evening meals
Yes same route
I don't feel the MO check was that thorough. I get the impression he just glanced in the door to check for awake children before hurrying back.Yes. If the curtain had been in this odd position already when MO checked at about 9.30pm, he would IMO have noticed it (because illuminated by the table lamp). Therefore the curtain was probably displaced to its odd position later than the MO check?
So sorry for your loss xxI am ever grateful tbh that I was able to grieve properly. I realise that there is always somebody, somewhere, worse off than myself. Thank You Okapi X
Could it not of been km, when she realised mm wasn't in her bed, she looked in the wardrobe, behind the settee etc to see if she was there?Yes possible it didnt register.
PJ/GA seemed to think the odd curtain position was caused by someone pulling the sofa out away from the window then pushing it back again against the window.
I agree. The panic must have been awful and the first instinct to find your child. I'd year the place to pieces.as wellIf I was a parent and my child was missing I would yank every curtain and sofa around and check behind and underneath everything ... even yank stuff out of closets to see if she was there.
How many of the Tapas 5 friends could have done the same while searching ??
It is extremely doubtful that those apartment pictures represent an undisturbed crime scene .
I bet even the first police on the scene checked everywhere in the apartment. Remember at that time nobody knew this was going to be an international kidnapping story. It was just a missing kid at first.
Trying to work my way round this.But this offers no explanation of why the kid’s bedroom door is more open on GM’s check than when he and KM left the apartment.
I do think this is important. Parents would be precise with how wide they leave the door open - just enough light so the kids aren’t freaked out if they wake up in complete darkness but dark enough for them to drop back to sleep if they wake up.
This anomaly was registered by GM. He probably thought MM woke up and opened it and then went back to bed, this is of course possible but in this scenario with my kids: they wake up, get completely out of bed, walk around the apartment, find no parents, they wouldn’t get back into bed and settle themselves, they would scream until they were attended to.
In my mind, the openness of the door is quite an important fact and it leads to an intruder in the apartment during both checks.
Yes and also we know he was comfortable intruding while others are in the apartment so he wouldn’t have been too worried as he would know he had the option just to flee if discoveredIf he was in 5A during GM’s check, it seems possible that he hid in the parents bedroom. I say this because GM went through the lounge/diner into the kids room and into the bathroom. It makes sense to hide here during this check but obviously he didn’t know in advance where GM would go in the apartment. While GM was in the bathroom, he could have changed his hiding location. I don’t think he need to go in there to check the exterior of the apartment out of the window but I could be wrong, just doesn’t give him much more information.
I just consider it unlikely that she slept continuously, without waking even once, through the evening meals on that sunday, monday, tuesday, and wednesday, each of which lasted longer than on the thursday.I’m not with you on this. I have four kids, one is three-and-a-half and MM would need to be an unusual child IMO to do this. At her age she probably wouldn’t be able to rationalise this situation and go back to sleep. She would almost certainly of screamed until her parents came to settle her or until exhaustion sent her to sleep, this latter option would likely take several hours.
I just consider it unlikely that she slept continuously, without waking even once, through the evening meals on that sunday, monday, tuesday, and wednesday, each of which lasted longer than on the thursday.
Which is an odd way to solve the case
I am so sorry for your loss.Yes. Very early on, a matter of days, MM came to KM in a dream and KM woke absolutely convinced that MM was showing her that she was deceased and buried on a hill. KM was adamant that every hill needed to be investigated. It is very sad and as a Mum of a deceased child, I totally believe that MM was bringing KM a message. The bond between Mother and child, even in death, is like an invisible umbilicle cord. I cant explain it X