Marmlet
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I mentioned my special-needs sister in the previous thread, and I’ve just now finally taken a close look at the pictures of the accommodations Nora went missing from. I think there is a slight disconnect between how Nora’s disabilities have been described, vs. the choosing of those accommodations. Especially if Nora was sleeping upstairs. She would not only need to navigate the spiral staircase, there is also the railing looking over the downstairs that could be fallen over.
If Nora has trouble with balance and walking, I am very surprised that they would have her sleeping upstairs there, especially without one of the parents sleeping up there as well. If reports that all three children were upstairs/parents were downstairs is accurate, then I think her physical capabilities have been understated. I completely understand that, though — if I, as a parent, fully believed that my child were abducted and the officials didn’t seem to agree, I would totally exaggerate/stress the reasons I felt that way! It would be very frustrating to feel that the investigation was going in the wrong direction, diminishing the chances of your child being found.
I think Nora must have somehow made her way outside, and any number of things could have happened after that. I also think she could still be in the immediate area, just not found. We see that in searches all the time — just because they did a thorough search doesn’t mean she couldn’t have been missed. We also see dogs missing scents on searches.
I keep checking back here, hoping she’s been found. I can’t imagine going back home with your child still missing. I think Nora’s parents seem genuinely devastated, and I really feel for them. I know that we are ALWAYS supposed to treat the family supportively and as victims, but in many (actually, most) missing children cases on here, people give the parents side-eye. I have wondered whether this family’s seeming affluence (compared to a lot of the missing children we see on here) has colored how people see the situation.
This whole scenario is completely baffling; HOW did she get out of there without anyone noticing? Maybe the openness to the outside made it harder to hear what was going on inside? Sounds of nature drowning other sounds out? I’m sure this feels like a horrible nightmare that the family would love to wake up from.
If Nora has trouble with balance and walking, I am very surprised that they would have her sleeping upstairs there, especially without one of the parents sleeping up there as well. If reports that all three children were upstairs/parents were downstairs is accurate, then I think her physical capabilities have been understated. I completely understand that, though — if I, as a parent, fully believed that my child were abducted and the officials didn’t seem to agree, I would totally exaggerate/stress the reasons I felt that way! It would be very frustrating to feel that the investigation was going in the wrong direction, diminishing the chances of your child being found.
I think Nora must have somehow made her way outside, and any number of things could have happened after that. I also think she could still be in the immediate area, just not found. We see that in searches all the time — just because they did a thorough search doesn’t mean she couldn’t have been missed. We also see dogs missing scents on searches.
I keep checking back here, hoping she’s been found. I can’t imagine going back home with your child still missing. I think Nora’s parents seem genuinely devastated, and I really feel for them. I know that we are ALWAYS supposed to treat the family supportively and as victims, but in many (actually, most) missing children cases on here, people give the parents side-eye. I have wondered whether this family’s seeming affluence (compared to a lot of the missing children we see on here) has colored how people see the situation.
This whole scenario is completely baffling; HOW did she get out of there without anyone noticing? Maybe the openness to the outside made it harder to hear what was going on inside? Sounds of nature drowning other sounds out? I’m sure this feels like a horrible nightmare that the family would love to wake up from.
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