stmarysmead
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IMO, I don't see the "sadistic" nature of the crime cancelling out the very strange "run-of-the-house" attitude of the perpetrators. It is the very casual approach to staying in that house hours after the first blow had been struck, walking around, opening drawers, writing a note, and then...like you are doing homework in your own kitchen...starting over and writing another of ridiculous length!
At the time the note was being composed, JB was gravely injured...not in any shape to be bartered away for ransom money. However, if these Laid-back intruders had removed her...she would have been more valuable TO THEM! So the refusal of the crackerjack "foreign faction" to carry out their mission and remove her...becomes another strike against their existence!
Here, supposedly, you have the Delta Force of kidnappers, so cool, to be shuffling about the house, finding blankets...writing notes...HOURS in the house...but they are too dumb to realize that the child DEAD is pretty much worthless to their objective of getting MONEY?
But if the Ramsey's were confronted with the horror that their son...appeared to have killed their daughter...the choice to stage IN the house would seem less risky then driving a corpse around in their car. What if a neighbor saw their car leaving in the wee hours? What if they were caught in a camera somewhere?
And just as there are stories of bold intruders coming into homes and abducting children (though making themselves at home for hours is VERY unique) there are also stories of children who kill children. Siblings who kill siblings. Let's remember that Burke had already hit JB with a golf club once before.
In my humble opinion, Patsy knew that Burke played inappropriately with his sister. I would guess that she thought he would outgrow it...that, as her Mother said, JB was only a "little bit molested." But the abuse had caused JB to begin wetting and defecating in bed ( to keep her abuser away, maybe) THIS is what Patsy may have tried to treat...not the embarrassing problem of sexual abuse in her perfect home.
IMO, when she was confronted with her seemingly dead daughter...she, in her shock, felt she had a living child to save. That's what she tried to do. The staging was done...on what religious people might perceive as the "shell" of JB...her soul having left the body. A "shell" that would feel no pain...so did it really seem "sadistic? " Such a thought would provide emotional distance. Then..Some items of comfort...a favorite nightgown....a blanket.
Instead of asking...what parent could do that to their child...ask what WOULD a parent do to save their ONLY living child? If Patsy believed JB was beyond saving...she only had one more child to save. She was facing the uncertainty of cancer....a shortness of her own time on this earth. She needed to have something! She needed a surviving child perhaps!
But the farce of the kidnapping also saved the Ramsey's social stature. No shame from molestation in the family. Instead, the Jackie Kennedy mourning clothes and the anointed victim status.
Just my thoughts and humble opinion...but these are my guesses from what we know.
At the time the note was being composed, JB was gravely injured...not in any shape to be bartered away for ransom money. However, if these Laid-back intruders had removed her...she would have been more valuable TO THEM! So the refusal of the crackerjack "foreign faction" to carry out their mission and remove her...becomes another strike against their existence!
Here, supposedly, you have the Delta Force of kidnappers, so cool, to be shuffling about the house, finding blankets...writing notes...HOURS in the house...but they are too dumb to realize that the child DEAD is pretty much worthless to their objective of getting MONEY?
But if the Ramsey's were confronted with the horror that their son...appeared to have killed their daughter...the choice to stage IN the house would seem less risky then driving a corpse around in their car. What if a neighbor saw their car leaving in the wee hours? What if they were caught in a camera somewhere?
And just as there are stories of bold intruders coming into homes and abducting children (though making themselves at home for hours is VERY unique) there are also stories of children who kill children. Siblings who kill siblings. Let's remember that Burke had already hit JB with a golf club once before.
In my humble opinion, Patsy knew that Burke played inappropriately with his sister. I would guess that she thought he would outgrow it...that, as her Mother said, JB was only a "little bit molested." But the abuse had caused JB to begin wetting and defecating in bed ( to keep her abuser away, maybe) THIS is what Patsy may have tried to treat...not the embarrassing problem of sexual abuse in her perfect home.
IMO, when she was confronted with her seemingly dead daughter...she, in her shock, felt she had a living child to save. That's what she tried to do. The staging was done...on what religious people might perceive as the "shell" of JB...her soul having left the body. A "shell" that would feel no pain...so did it really seem "sadistic? " Such a thought would provide emotional distance. Then..Some items of comfort...a favorite nightgown....a blanket.
Instead of asking...what parent could do that to their child...ask what WOULD a parent do to save their ONLY living child? If Patsy believed JB was beyond saving...she only had one more child to save. She was facing the uncertainty of cancer....a shortness of her own time on this earth. She needed to have something! She needed a surviving child perhaps!
But the farce of the kidnapping also saved the Ramsey's social stature. No shame from molestation in the family. Instead, the Jackie Kennedy mourning clothes and the anointed victim status.
Just my thoughts and humble opinion...but these are my guesses from what we know.