The reasoning behind
MY interest in find when WM and MB
"split" is because
I believe it could be very revealing as to how the
split of his parents effected DM. It is a known fact that a broken family does play a significant role on a child/teenagers life in many ways. There is no indication or information in the MSM as of yet as to what kind of a relationship DM had with each parent. The fact that he resided with his father could be very telling as to what type of relationship he had with his mother. Was DM going off the rails around the time his parents split? Was he the driving force behind his parents split? IMO there is great concern and interest on my part as to how DM may have been conducting his life after his parents
split, which could be indications as to his mental state after his parents split. Just because it does not seem relative or necessary to some to sleuth out information in certain avenues, doesn't mean others don't see the rational behind it. HTH and MOO.
*Neighbours rarely saw DM at his mother's home (possible strained relationship?)
Maybe they met regularly every week at a local restaurant for a chat and some quality time ?? JMO
*If his parent split in 2001 (per MsS finding MB's Tinsmith house purchase) DM was 16
*According to some reports, DM left school at 16
*Assumption DM was into drugs. Using or dealing
Many teenagers experiment and many more try marijuana IMO
*Accused of murder and theft
*Hung around one known person with a criminal background
I think we might have all hung around people with a criminal background at some point...most people dont advertise their record. Also not all records contain violent crimes IMO .
Just a few points to consider and MOO
What are the problems for the children?
Behavior problems, lower self esteem, tend to trust others less, get lower grades at school and psychological problems. They are also less able to make friends, have a higher risk to use too much alcohol and drugs and have a higher risk to get on the criminal path.
Like I said..I am from a 'broken' family, my parents divorced. I excelled at school and beyond. I have friends all over the world who I am contact with.
I do not drink and do not snort cocaine. So I can vouch that children from divorced parents are not guaranteed to be at risk for anything. JMO
Later on in life, they tend to have more risky sexual relationships, are unhappier and more of them have children without being married.
I do not have a sexually transmitted disease and have not engaged in risky permissive behaviour. This probably one of the reasons that I find statistics often simply someones limited attempt at profiling using a select group and thus not reflecting 'society' as a whole. JMO
http://www.children-and-divorce.com/statistics-children-of-divorce.html
The study found that children whose parents eventually divorce show higher levels of depression, as well as higher levels of anti-social behaviour, than children whose parents remain married.
It makes you wonder who they actually studied, when you consider that more people divorce than stay together these days...JMO.
http://www.statcan.gc.ca/daily-quotidien/051213/dq051213c-eng.htm