It really doesn't matter what you would do or think as a parent. The fact remains these incidents did occur and happened just prior to Jacob's abduction. Why hasn't this been talked about on the board? These boys reported this to their parents who reported it to LE, yet I never heard about this.
And you know what, it doesn't matter WHAT TIME after dark you let you're kids go a mile down a road, it's still wrong. You might as well throw the Wetterling parents under the bus because it really doesn't matter if it's midnight or 9:15, it's near pitch out in late October.
It probably hasn't been talked about because LE did not believe these boys at the time. A car flashed lights at them. They were not assaulted or injured in any way. IF it happened and was not a figment of over-active imaginations, it isn't like Jacob's case. If only Jacob, Aaron and Trevor had been so lucky to just have someone flash lights at them!