NC - Zahra Clare Baker, 10, Hickory, 9 Oct 2010 - #10

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And a DUH on me .... 6668 ... DUH ....:loser:

Birthdate: 6th of June 1968 = 6668

How original for a username for SM.

Took me awhile to figure it out, too. I was thinking "Six Six Six Eight...The neighbor of the Beast? On the next block from the Beast? Ooooh! The birthday of the Beast."
 
BBM: Keep in mind that children who live in an abusive home do have a deep love and loyalty to their caregivers (using that term loosely!) because that is the only reference they have to a normal homelife. I would imagine that this is the case with Zahra especially due to the fact that she was isolated from friends, family, playmates. It's my opinion that DCS should know this about abused children and utilize other methods than merely the appearance that the child is happy to come to a conclusion that the child is in danger.

ITA Reba and also her daddy may have been coaching her to not make "mommy" :sick: mad. Poor thing probably only tried to please him and her jailer! I also think she was scared in that all her family was in Australia-the only family here was her father and momster's family. Maybe , Zahra felt she was safer by keeping quiet and suffering in silence!!:furious:
 
ITA Reba and also her daddy may have been coaching her to not make "mommy" :sick: mad. Poor thing probably only tried to please him and her jailer! I also think she was scared in that all her family was in Australia-the only family here was her father and momster's family. Maybe , Zahra felt she was safer by keeping quiet and suffering in silence!!:furious:

We have been foster parents and I am always amazed when a child that has come from an abusive or neglectful family would rather go back to those abusive parents than be in a safe, loving, happy home. Their view of "normal" and happy is so skewed that they don't know how to exist any other way.

I'm not saying this was the case with Zahra . . . just my experience.
 
BBM: Keep in mind that children who live in an abusive home do have a deep love and loyalty to their caregivers (using that term loosely!) because that is the only reference they have to a normal homelife. I would imagine that this is the case with Zahra especially due to the fact that she was isolated from friends, family, playmates. It's my opinion that DCS should know this about abused children and utilize other methods than merely the appearance that the child is happy to come to a conclusion that the child is in danger.

It is not necessarily love and loyalty but your point is well taken.

It is actually more like a forn of stockholm syndrome on ly its been around alot longer. Abused children, especially those who've endured it over the long term, tend to be big pleasers, usually particularly anxious to please their abuser. It is not love or loyalty in most cases, it is survival pure and simple. The one person who seems to hate them and holds their fate every moment of the day in their sadistic hands becomes the only person on the world whose opinoin of you matters. Your very life depends upon it.

Although, I will grant you after the news that Zahra's bio mom was not at all in her life from the time she was a small baby, I do believe there is a bit of abandonment issue that played into Zahra's feeling for SM.

"My own mom didn't care enough to even stick around, and that was before I even had cancer. At least this one wanted me enough to marry my dad despite my cancer. If she is treating me like it must be my fault. I will be better, I must be better. Or she might not want/love me anymore."

This is of course ridiculous, but to a small child who faced the hardships that young Zahra has from a young age, makes perfect sense. IMOO
 
Thanks, for a minute I thought I was in the Haleigh Cummings forum...

I have missed all you faithful Haleigh followers...got hung up on the Kyron threads now this mess.
 
news video


[ame="http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=6949978n"]Search for Zahra Baker - CBS News Video[/ame]
 
Thank you Elepher for this bibliography of the web presence of EB!!! Nicely done!!! In case someone has trouble linking, here is the information Elepher posted:

Twitter: http://twitter.com/fairygirl6668

Flixster: http://www.flixster.com/user/fairygirl6668

IMVU Sex Site: http://avatars.imvu.com/Guest_fairygirl6668

YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/fairygirl6668

Gaia: http://www.gaiaonline.com/profiles/11754643/

DocStoc: http://www.docstoc.com/profile/fairygirl6668

Deep Realm: http://www.deeprealm.com/fairygirl6668

Great job Elepher!!! Thank you again!!!

Well Reannan, my curiosity got the better of me and I clicked on her profile for IMVU. Here's her self-description:

im totally goth all the time,but in a cool way. not all dull and cr@p
Apparently stepmommy is as articulate as she is kind. What an immature :loser:
Zahra angel, you deserved SO much better!
 
Massive Search For Zahra Comes Up Empty
Updated: 11:13 pm EDT October 14, 2010

HICKORY, N.C. -- For the fifth day in a row, police launched a massive search on Thursday at a remote property north of Morganton, but they did not fine any signs of Zahra Baker. Zahra Clare Baker

Thursday was the most active day of searching since Zahra was reported missing on Saturday. 70 people looked through 60 acres of land just north of Morganton.

To find some closure Thursday night, more than 100 people showed up at First Baptist Church in Hudson for a private candlelight vigil.

Zahra used to attend Hudson Elementary until this year. Dozens of Zahra's former teachers and classmates attended. "To see her leave, its just really hard for all of us," said 10-year-old Alliy Merkwa, fighting back tears.
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and more, at
http://www.wsoctv.com/news/25389806/detail.html
 
On the newspaper article that is coming in the AM about the crawl space at the previous residence;

It could be the neighborhood children knew this was going on. Tonight we found out that Zahra was actually allowed out to play with them and they had witnessed the evil rage of EB - cussing at, screaming at, pulling her hair, etc.

I'm sure one or two of those kids would have sat and talked with Zahra and she probably was thankful for a "peer" to talk to and could have told them about where she had to sleep.

JMO
 
I am sorry, was trying not to be judgemental....after being on the Haleigh forum for sooooooooooooooo long and having her dad's favorite saying of that over and over and over and then suddenly someone actually distantly connected to this case had that on his site just sent shivers down me...I could not even post about it last night and actually not sure I have posted on these threads at all...I am just too sickened to type. Did not mean to offend:innocent: Hope you understand. These cases just get tough.

Totally understand ..

I noticed he actually has it as a tattoo on his arm .. in one of his FB photos, just fyi .. :crazy:
 
It is not necessarily love and loyalty but your point is well taken.

It is actually more like a forn of stockholm syndrome on ly its been around alot longer. Abused children, especially those who've endured it over the long term, tend to be big pleasers, usually particularly anxious to please their abuser. It is not love or loyalty in most cases, it is survival pure and simple. The one person who seems to hate them and holds their fate every moment of the day in their sadistic hands becomes the only person on the world whose opinoin of you matters. Your very life depends upon it.

Although, I will grant you after the news that Zahra's bio mom was not at all in her life from the time she was a small baby, I do believe there is a bit of abandonment issue that played into Zahra's feeling for SM.

"My own mom didn't care enough to even stick around, and that was before I even had cancer. At least this one wanted me enough to marry my dad despite my cancer. If she is treating me like it must be my fault. I will be better, I must be better. Or she might not want/love me anymore."

This is of course ridiculous, but to a small child who faced the hardships that young Zahra has from a young age, makes perfect sense. IMOO

BBM

So damn sad and very true......IMO
 
OMG I was doing so well til I read the quote from the former clasmate

I am sitting here bawling. Like loud, hubby is gonna hear me from upstairs bawling.

I get emotional, I get wrapped up, I even shed a tear, here and there when it all gets too much on the threads. but I am outright bawling for this baby right now.


sorry. Gonna go for a sex.
 
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