KikiWanBaniki
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A big key in my recovery was discovering why it occurred, if only to force myself out of the hate bubble that ate me alive. I think that's part of what drew me here to this site...it's ingrained in me to have to understand why. I can't help these kids, and I know that, but I want to answers the whys for them because to me, that equals release. (Lord, that sounds smaltzy.)
It's a hard road getting beyond those things, but a worthy one--good for you!
And, no, it doesn't sound 'smaltzy'--I always tell my kids, 'if something's a cliche, there's probably a good reason it got that way'!