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Nebraska set to offer clearinghouse for missing adults
By GWEN TIETGEN / Lincoln Journal Star
When Kelly Jolkowski realized her son Jason had disappeared from their Omaha home just days before his 20th birthday, she felt like she was watching herself in a movie and couldnt get out.
Numb. Paralyzed.
Jason was last seen June 13, 2001, by his brother, Michael.
Somewhere between our driveway and the high school he disappeared, said Jolkowski, noting his car was in the shop so a friend was picking him up for work. Over four years later, we dont really know a thing. A police sergeant (called it) the most baffling case he has seen in 30 years.
Since then, Jolkowski has thrust her grief into looking for her son and helping others with missing loved ones.
She helped push a law through the Legislature this year to create a statewide missing persons clearinghouse for adults and children. A Web site will complement the clearinghouse so all can see Nebraskas missing. The information is set to go online in about a month, said Lt. John Shelton, with the Nebraska State Patrol.
Inside law enforcement, the new law means the names of both missing children and adults are forwarded to the Nebraska State Patrol. Those in law enforcement also receive a bulletin twice a month of all the states missing persons.
Prior to passage of the law, which took effect in September, law enforcement only passed on names of missing children younger than of 16.
If it was an adult, its possible no one else would know they are missing unless you contact that department, said Lincoln police Capt. Gary Engel.
The clearinghouse also will establish a procedure to alert local media outlets, said Cindy Kess, clearinghouse manager and supervisor in the State Patrols criminal identification division.
Itll be a work-in-progress, really, is what itll be, she said.
Now, the State Patrols Web site links to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and the National Center for Missing Adults Web sites.
Three missing adults and seven missing children from Nebraska pop up on those Web sites, but thats a far cry from the 391 active missing persons cases in Nebraska as of Sept. 31, Kess said.
At any given time, Lincoln police investigate 50 to 75 missing adult and children cases, Engel said.
Most are found within a reasonable amount of time, and only half a dozen or so are long-term cases or are missing under suspicious circumstances, he said.
The most suspicious and notorious cases in Lincoln are those of Regina Bos and Melissa Schmidt.
Bos, who would now be 45, was last seen Oct. 17, 2000, outside a downtown Lincoln bar. Schmidt, who would now be 25, was last seen Sept. 5, 1995. She had stayed over at a friends home the night before, and the next day went to the Nebraska State Fair, Engel said. Investigators believe she came home from the fair and disappeared sometime afterward.
Jolkowski said the typical person has no idea where to turn after reporting a loved one missing. The notion of offering rewards or posting pictures of the missing person may be foreign to families who find themselves in the middle of a police investigation, she said.
To help, Jolkowski formed Project Jason.
I think theres a healing. A self-healing in reaching out and helping other people, she said.
But helping others puts her on an emotional roller coaster, she said.
There are good days, like when media coverage of a missing person could lead to a tip that finds the loved one.
And there are bad days. In one week, Jolkowski found out two of the three families she had been working with were told their loved one had been murdered.
Sometimes, talking about missing people can make Jolkowski relive her own horrifying experience. Those times are starting to be less and less now, she said.
She goes on after hearing another grieving family member thank her for her help. And for caring.
These people need that relief of talking to somebody who truly understands, she said.
One night after a long conversation, a family member said simply, I dont even know you but I love you.
Im so blessed to get to do this work. Its a privilege to help people and affect things in their lives, and we get to do it in our sons name.
Whether its help through Project Jason or the clearinghouse, awareness is the key, Jolkowski said.
Because sooner or later youre going to run across somebody who knows something, she said.
Said the State Patrols Shelton: Eventually, when the Web site is populated, itll put more eyes on the street for law enforcement to solve more of these missing persons (cases).
On the Web
Project Jason, a nonprofit organization designed to help families cope and find their missing loved ones:
www.projectjason.org.
Nebraska State Patrol:
http://www.nsp.state.ne.us/ Click on Programs/Services
National Center for Missing & Exploited Children:
http://www.missingkids.com/
National Center for Missing Adults:
http://www.theyaremissed.org/ncma/