Lauren Anne Dickason has admitted killing 6yo Liané and 2yo twins Maya and Karla.
www.nzherald.co.nz
I see real reason for her to be overwhelmed - I was under the impression that she had the night nanny from the very beginning, but it seems, no, only with the twins.
I am also under an impression that Graham was trying to escape the family situation more often than not. Like, about that hunting trip mentioned here - does one really need to go on a hunting trip if there is an exhausted, mentally unstable wife at home with three kids? He knew at least about her depression. The article below mentions “intermittent mood disorder” as the diagnosis, and being a doctor, Graham had to see it. Nothing wrong in having a mood disorder and being the mother, but he had to prevail upon her to take medications; I have a feeling he had more clout there.
Mum accused of triple murder 'resentful' towards kids - prosecution (about the diagnosis of “intermittent mood disorder”).
Now, this part is my pure speculation. I am honestly on the fence whether Lauren was clinically insane when killing the girls, or extremely angry and planned very well, or both. I suspect, a mixture of both, but let us assume she either planned to kill herself, but was stopped by another thought and made a half-hearted attempt, or, she never planned to kill herself, only the girls.
Let us assume both L and G wanted to have kids, that 17 IVFs were hard on both and some cracks could never heal. In short, L carrying and giving birth to the children did not bring him closer as the family unit, that the kids were mostly pushed on L and left with her, and with the Covid and loss of the night nurse, it was all only her. At that time, lack of sleep must have pushed her close to the edge. I suspect this truly happened. Let’s assume that L was very angry with G because with three kids, she lost her mental stability, her professional independence, and her family was anything but perfect. And G was minimally involved, moreover, coming home from work, he’d be the preferred parent for the girls.
Here is pure assumption. With three kids gone and her gone, G would be totally free.
With L in a mental institution, I doubt divorce would be easy.
I don’t think she is telling the full story, because if she goes to the mental facility, she doesn’t need to.
One thing that Lauren may not understand but what I expect can happen is that if properly treated in a mental facility, Lauren would get more lucid, and then the enormous horror of what she’d done would overwhelm her. So in a way, it would be a worse punishment.
I am constantly asking myself, why is G back in Pretoria? One reason could be financial, if this situation deprived him of NZ work visa. If not, him returning back might mean that he wants to close this page of his life.