Bit of hope
Life is a long lesson in humility.
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Couldn't find an update as off today. Not in Namus (yet)
So all we have is that it's possibly male? Ugh.
Lots of women sleep in men's boxer shorts. I'm not quite ruling it out yet.Seems like it.. no height or not even color of tank top or boxers.. Iam assuming they are underwear he was wearing but I read an article that said men’s shorts.
You know Adderall you totally have a point there!Lots of women sleep in men's boxer shorts. I'm not quite ruling it out yet.
Lots of women sleep in men's boxer shorts. I'm not quite ruling it out yet.
this is also him. dang thats brutal. quick question. were all the DV complaints same victim, and does she (or he) have brothers or a father?
maybe he owed someone as well.
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no. its just that some toxic masculinity response is to violently defend a sister or daughters "honor" and the brutal way this guy was dispatched suggested elements of torture. but then i thought who even knows if the DV was w a M or F partner, or even if its related, who knows.Hi @cvaldez1975 Maybe I have a blonde moment , but why the question about the brothers or father? Did you find something related?
no. its just that some toxic masculinity response is to violently defend a sister or daughters "honor" and the brutal way this guy was dispatched suggested elements of torture. but then i thought who even knows if the DV was w a M or F partner, or even if its related, who knows.
that is also very true.--OR--
His father or brother (if there is one) may have had gambling debts, drug debts, or in some other way, made some violent person mad......the possibilities are endless. Just speculation without inside information (which can often be difficult to obtain in immigrant communities, especially where organized crime has a weighty presence).
he didnt deserve this though. he deserved to be prosecuted.Let's just say he was not a stellar citizen. One example:
im sorry for the loss of your friend, especially in such horrible circumstances.The article villainized an innocent person who I've personally known for a long time and can vouch for.
He may have a record, but that didn't define him. I have always felt very safe with him as a female friend, and he's had many girl friends who would say the same - and personally, I don't know where these domestic charges are from. I can't imagine him having hurt any girl and my judgement here is not clouded. What I do know, without saying too much here - is that cops weren't his greatest fans and they've the power to write up whatever they want to write up.
He was a good person, and we all mourn and love him. I hope that people can read his name and treat it with respect as any foreign human to human would in a time like this. Thank you for your time, wishing you all well