When this crime was first committed we all on here discussed at length whether that move 30 days prior had anything to do with it. It just seemed like too much to just be a coincidence. We really couldn't come up with a viable reason that it would. But hindsight is 20/20 and knowing what we do now, it is very possible that move by DR was the trigger that set everything in motion.
I have a feeling that AW was very used to getting what she wanted, and she wanted to move to AK and take both her grandchildren with her. The mother of the other grandchild signed over her parental rights, perhaps because she was threatened by the W's or simply did not have the money or the support from her family to fight them.
But HR was a whole different ball game. She had strong support from her family. And it looked like CR1 and DR were doing pretty well for themselves financially, so I am thinking the W's first asked and when HR refused and even took steps to make a good case in court for her keeping custody, that triggered a rage in AW and JW. Since, AW and AM are related I am thinking AW told AM that little Sw was being abused/molested or some such to enlist her help. I am not real sure at this time how much JM was involved, since AM had access to his cell phone to make the text to JW that night, but I do know it has been reported that DR and AM did not get along.
JMO
Rsd, the reason I thought about the "war" in a custody battle is I went through one myself. As I've said before, this family reminds me of my family back in the day. The custody battle got very nasty and took years to get my child back. Emotions run very high and it is very hard to keep calm when you know your child is in danger. Lawyers are not cheap either when your a single parent starting all over in life. Going to court every time you turn around and dealing with the worry of your child can become overwhelming! There were times I thought of just getting in a car and running away with my child. So I can understand what some people go through. Desperate people do desperate things. Killing someone never entered my mind, but I'm not a killer.
BBM
I agree with all of this. I think, that one thing that has made me look more at the Ws, is being over in the little Mariah Woods case. That case, like all kid cases, is heartbreaking. However, there are two kids left, that I worry about having some sort of life, and I'm not sure anyone in the family is capable of caring for them at the current point in time. It's bothered me and I'm just an onlooker. I went to my little grandchild's Christmas play last night, came home, thought about the Woods kids, and cried (and I don't cry, it just, happened...).
I thought about my child having to go to court to get supervised visitation set, for my grandchild's other parent. Had there not been funds from us, to hire a lawyer, it could have drug on forever, and it's possible the child could have been alone with the other parent when they ultimately took their own life. The other parent was not a horrible person. Troubled? Yes. People like my child, and Mariah's father, don't normally commit murder, over custody, because they know, for one, they'd not get away with it, so,# two, who'd be there for their child, afterwards? So, you don't see it often. It's usually familicide, if I can't have them, no one can have them, and then the parent offs themselves, too.
Although he'd made some very poor choices, that had left some negative impacts on our kids, I didn't kill my ex, either, his own habits did that (Not that I'm a perfect parent, because I am not. I don't think they exist.).
However, if AW spun a tale of S, potentially being abused by CR1 (As in, you know his Daddy did the same! That bloodline is tainted! for instance.), to rope them into helping, and combine that with possible jealousies that were already simmering under the surface? It could be possible. I think AW could be a vindictive person, and I'm not so sure the relationship between AM, and DR, was all that copacetic.
I'm still hesitant to point fingers at the Ws, as an absolute, though. Just been thinking about all the different family situations in these WS cases, and kids, and court, and custody,and high emotions, in my own family.
Here's one story, about a custody related murder, that I dug up. Has anyone else run across any?
http://www.cbs7.com/content/news/Re...d-man-to-gain-custody-of-child-440986583.html