happyday
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I don’t know. I actually probably wouldn’t have called the police right away either. This is her adult husband, not her child. For one, I would be thinking the most likely explanation is that his phone died & he was passed out somewhere—not abducted or something terrible. I would be super worried and upset, but I wouldn’t have wanted to involve the police & risk him getting arrested for public intoxication. I totally buy that her mother-in-law had to convince her it was time to call & make a missing persons report b/c for her this took it to another level of worry. I think I would feel like that. I just think police were called in a reasonable amount of time. Besides, they pretty much just told her at that point that he’s an adult and allowed to “go missing.” So I don’t know that it would have made a difference.The fact that his wife didn't call the police until 11:30 (EIGHT HOURS after he went missing) certainly did nothing to help the situation. My LE friends all said they would that that as a sign she wasn't that worried, especially given the situation that they were out of town. One would think she'd be even more upset as their surroundings were unfamiliar. Plus she was totally alone after the friend left. So, if she's not that worried, why should they be? It would look like she thought he'd be back soon, or that he has a habit of taking off and he'd come back eventually. Had she called right away - panicked, upset and desperate to find him, that changes things. Usually, when loved ones go missing their families are panicked and call right away. LE then goes out and assesses the situation. She didn't even call them right away to allow them to drive out there and see if there was a reason to worry, etc.. That's unreal to me.
There are some weird things about the whole situation, but for me this isn’t one of them.