Those celebration stories were circulating early on but seem to have mostly died out. The stories also don't seem consistent with the PCA. The PCA probably has errors too. But general times and where the parents were is probably not wrong unless the parents aren't being honest to LE. I'm not saying that's happening but I guess anything is possible.
I'm not sure when the anniversary dinner or Father's Day celebration was supposed to be. Father's Day was Sun Aug 16 not Sat Aug 15. And it appears their wedding anniversary was Aug 6.
https://www.westelm.com/registry/h92crc79p8/registry-list.html
Some stories also throw in it was E's birthday too. I'm not sure how that was verified or if it was.
If NV had been there a few days and had come east to "babysit" not to visit her friend SR as some stories claim, that seems very odd to me. Perhaps the couple has no other trusted friends or family nearby to babysit but flying across the country so friends can go out to eat? Seems odd to me. Plus, if the genital injury happened earlier, didn't either parent change a diaper to see it? Or was NV changing all the diapers? She was staying at a Airbnb blocks away not at the couple's house so how would that have been possible?
I can see dad deferring decisions but it still seems odd to me he didn't wake her up if there was an obvious injury. Of course, as several posters have suggested, maybe it wasn't that obvious at the time, but was in hindsight only after Leon was injured.
MOO