They were not elderly people, it seems very odd to me they would be thinking about removing their troubled twenty-something from their wills. Especially when they had an ongoing relationship with him, it's not like they had disowned him in other respects.
This no doubt will be very unpopular.
I agree. I've been thinking about that a lot.
Why? j and J were young. Was it an on going
Threat and or conversation? Did they always say if you don't do this or that we will write you off and out of our will.? Bizzaar - sorry.
They set it up so that they gave him but also controlled everything. ( good $ after bad?)Then leveraged that over him while he was spiraling downward. they told and complained about him and brought that up to everyone too. Gross.
Writing him off and out of the will.
Was that the only tool they had? Their personal finances weren't all that great. Come on reread the first posts in this thread. Not around here. Massive wealth - massive family estates.
Why were they particularly obsessed with that as the final option last resort?
I would like to know A Lot.
What happened in that dcf report? He was already almost too old by then for the dcf system by 2oo6 imo. Did kn have a mental health diagnosis in k-12 ? Did they ever go to family counseling? Did KN ever go to rehab?
The spine center in Trumbull is not rehab. That is a real spine center ( therapy and laser spine surgery) great dr.
If kn ever threatened to kill them or anyone ever...showed signs of emotional problems - Was obsessed with guns ...Why didn't they drive him to a hospital. Call the PD?
Ummmm ( report him for the offense they arrested him for /having guns and addiction to controlled or illegal drugs ) People have to stop sticking their heads in the sand. And denying their problems . And drive their children and grown adult children too - to the hospital to a mental health professional.
Very upsetting.
I mean even the police department in Weston washed their hands of the family and the case. 500 feet from the police department and where jn worked. Gmab
Sorry I'm super Bummed. Disgusted. Traumatized.
I'm sure no one will agree with me but,( KN and TN were in my home and My kids were also in theirs) Being that KN may not be a threat to anyone else other than Jand j - I do think he should be eligible for parole in 25 years.
My opinion only. Don't shoot me.
They should have gotten this under control a long time ago.
They just sold their house, they could have provided him with high quality rehab.
Our families - our kids friends families - if we see something say something.
Forgive my rant.
Ty